^ lololol
You started it. That was funny, tho. Brilliant dysphemisms.
However, the adjective describing my celibacy would be "voluntary."
For the hundredth time.
I started what??
Y'know Xena, it's nothing personal. It's about crossing lines. Repeatedly posting someone's potentially incriminating personal details was barging the line you previously more than tiptoed and were warned about by more than one 'senior' members other than me. (Hint TB)
I saw you bringing up M. in chat yet again a few days back.
(For those unclued, M is a pretty hot good-looking young woman who happens to be fairly bright as well, as it turned out after i had a private chat with her for the first time a few days back. She's not the losing party of this squabble.)
I usually tend to cut more slack for the young ones, as they have a future. Old farts tend to brew away in their own misery.
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That said, i wish all the best to your daughter with the move & all, she sounds quite sweet.
You started this on March 23rd.
About 4 days before I even thought about posting anything about M :P
Winners and losers on a forum for sociopaths? W/e you want to call it. I call it expressing an opinion.
Anyway, this has been done to death...
Thanks for wishing my daughter well. She is a good girl. :)
Yes, i take you mean my "Guys We're On TV" thread: http://sociopath-community.com/topic/2014-03-23/guys-we-re-on-tv
That was when i saw you simultaneously perusing and trashing this forum. I'm all up for a level playing field.
M's personal info you posted in that thread first time indeed, voluntarily, after you've been angered by some random remark of mine which may have hit a nerve, so you assumed that "they" must be "whispering into my ear". They weren't.
Winners and losers on a forum for sociopaths?
Nope, i meant winners and losers in Real Life.
You sure want to end up like MrO? You got a son to bring up.
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That said, I'm never to say never. You been given very good, helpful, and even tactful (and free!!) advice from an outstandingly good mental health professional none of us could likely afford IRL. Take it.
Also passing on MacB's opinion on the whole bitchfest: you need to go back & finish university, and get a life. You're better than this.
^ And he's usually correct.
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One thing i hope you learnt since 2012 is that i don't do grudges. Nor do i take sides.
I'd love to go back and finish uni.
Too busy working a shitty job right now, tho. It might be doable after I turn 50ish, when I'm finished climbing back up to where I was at 28 ish... you know, back when I made enough money to be able to save a little?
My degree will cost me about $50 000 and I no longer qualify for student loans. I'm looking into a cheaper training course that will teach me a trade with self employment potential by about age 45. I should have the $$ saved up to pay for it when it starts next January. Not sure what to expect in terms of $$ after that.
Idk if it will be worth going back to uni when I'm 50.
I'll never be like MrO. lol
by Xenawhere I was at 28 ish... you know, back when I made enough money to be able to save a little?
LOL i don't know, i never made enough to save any. In my twenties i was literally starving, for years. Like, undernourished & stuff. Shall we start a Four Yorkshiremen thread?? 
I'll let you in on what's not a lil' secret as i posted it quite a few times - i never went to uni. I only have an intermediate degree in museological restoring. Officially I'm severely uneducated.
I'm looking into a cheaper training course that will teach me a trade with self employment potential by about age 45.
Do they teach new tricks to old dogs?? Sign me up then.
I should have the $$ saved up to pay for it when it starts next January. Not sure what to expect in terms of $$ after that.
I never paid for any course in my life and i'm freelance since almost forever. Those training courses usually charge the fools' tax - just make sure it's paid by the govt. and not out of your own pocket.
Myself, i prefer to leave any middleman out of my dealings.
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Then again, i may have an unfairly privilege due to my upbringing / the skills & values my mother/grandmother hoisted upon me.
Mind you, social sciences are fickle. Good tailoring beats them any day. 
Meh. My gvt. doesn't pay for shit anymore. They've been committed to rounding up my so-called 'type' and putting the thumbscrews to us since about the mid 90s when we got Americanized. When all else fails we're expected to whore ourselves out to strangers or husbands to pay the bills. Yuck.
If I quit my job and go back on welfare they might... possibly... maybe pay for it. But I'd rather not risk it for a $2000 course.
They might have something similar where you are... I looked at some tourist info back when Doodly was going on about how dirty and ugly your hometown is. Such a crass motherfucker. lol. There are some lovely colleges where you are. Look into it if you're looking for something new ;)
^ Ha. Yep. That's us. :D
by Xenamy so-called 'type'
Ha, 'Type'.
One of the first things i learnt as a small child by listening to adults' conversations was how to distinguish stereotypes and how to avoid falling into them.
Social stereotypes don't exist without a reason.
we're expected to whore ourselves out to strangers or husbands to pay the bills. Yuck.
Are you??
I've never been.
I looked at some tourist info back when Doodly was going on about how dirty and ugly your hometown is. Such a crass motherfucker. lol.
Must've missed that post. My actual hometown isn't that bad in fact in terms of geography & baroque architecture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pm5RJjeCvis - nor are either of my current dwellings, Atlantic side. A tad wet perhaps but could be worse as they say. Velvet green.
There are some lovely colleges where you are. Look into it if you're looking for something new ;)
Thanks but no, thanks. No time & all that. But thanks.
Am I? Expected to do that?
I've only been hearing it a minimum of twice/ month and sometimes as much as 10x in a day since I was about 13.
"Find a nice guy to take care of you." "Well why won't you hook? It's only sex." The words are actually triggering for me at certain times of the month.
Not sure why we're having this discussion again. If Pink had said those things about hooking to my face and not on some online forum I might have hit her. That's just how I am about it.