by MissCommunicationFor those more informed on this, can borderlines be histrionic as well? ^
Yes, the two are very often co-morbid.
Are they badly hurt and seeking revenge? I thought SPs were not supposed to care, does this mean they're like borderlines?
You might be onto something. Most PDs are rooted in early childhood abuse. Neglect is a form of abuse. Likely their parents neglected to facilitate their mental development as small children, so they never made it above the age of 5 years or so.
I found the panacea for the situation is putting them (jim & co) on the 'mute' list, works like a charm - no more clutter! Hope this helps.