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KINDNESS


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Kindness, is the most powerfull manipulation tool you have. Most people overlook this one. Say you are at work

and spot a new guy that just hired on. Strike up a conversation with him, and after a few days of getting to know

him. Tell him how you think he is very smart, and that he is going to go places with this company. Then tell him how you

wish you could be more like him, so that you to could move up.

He will eat that shit up, and you will have set the hook. Who knows maybe someday he will be able to help you.

 

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Whoameye, thank you for the wise words and unique perspective. You have really given me something to think about.
Oh, and welcome to the forum by the way. I think you're very bright and strong. You  will excel here and in all the areas of your life. I don't know much about you and yet I wish I could be more like you. I wonder if we could chat more. 

- Bi

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It took me years, since some of my more debilitating traits were explained to me, to strike a balance between my more destructive and creative tendencies.

Overall I do try to be kind, tactful, considerate and diplomatic, so as to leave a good impression on those I encounter occasionally and those I have to deal with on a daily basis.

It allows me a lot of wiggle room, when I come across as unkind, untactful, inconsiderate and downright undiplomatic.

 

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Lol

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I think you are encouraging a very irresponsible behavior, by not covering your mouth when encountering sarcasm and loling.

Be a lady and giggle incessantly instead my dear.

It will make the underlying cause less obvious and leave the poor sod even more confused.

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Well if something genuinely makes me laugh I feel the need to let the person know. Gratitude? Damn my emotions.

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You are too kind dear. A true lady. tips balaclava and bows low 

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But your emotions are very precious.

Don't damn them.

Instead explore them and find fulfillment in the act.

Oh well, I rescind my admonishment.

LOL to your heart's desire.

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You're not telling us anything we didn't already know.

Showing kindness is as much a part of the 'mask' as pretending to care when blending in to society, manipulating people or climbing the ladder of success.

I have no problem being kind to someone if I know it will get me something in return.

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You and I know this. But I think most people tend to forget how powerfull kindness can actually be, if used in the right way.

Example: In this forum, if someone wanted to stand a chance of me telling them something personal about myself. They would

have to try and befriend me. I dont see this tactic being used in this forum. I figured I would see more mind games in here

 

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