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Are we a family?

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 2876

Hi everyone,

So I have been considering life, and all that, and I often feel like such a weirdo because I don't have that many friends, but I must say that I feel a sense of belonging with this community. Being able to post my feelings and express myself has enabled me to show my true self to you guys, and even though I can't relate your personalities to real names, they exist none-the-less, and I feel as if having an understanding of you guys. We are creating history with eachother, culture, memmories. I'd argue it might even be viewed as bonding, and that we are becoming a small little family.

So what do you guys think? Do you feel attached to the personalities you meet here? Do you enjoy "knowing" people here, and the sense of belonging and ability to freely express yourself without judgement?

Thanks!

Luna

 

P.S. Don't make fun of my lack of friends!! I have experimented with having lots of friends in real life, and it's not worth the effort!! With online friends, though, it seems to be different. Less aggressive, more freedom, privacy, and liberty from fear of being judged. :)

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 121
Are we a family?

zee leemehr lahvuhz loonah

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 2876
Are we a family?

I love you too!! :D

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 121
Are we a family?

Leemehr keesehz!!

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 68
Are we a family?

I'd argue that since the majority here is constantly on the defence or offence, that there is very little bonding actually taking place because there is very little sincerity. plenty of manipulation but I don't think anyone believes the majority of what others say, which leaves an environment where there is very little trust. and while actual loyalty isnt required a belief that it is there is...

so no, while i can at times respect the intellect and humor of some here, the dynamic here is not one of family. perhaps one of an anarchaic gang of bandits... but not a family... 

and i believe your perception of such a thing comes from your youth and background with a desire to belong. being a child of adoption and all...

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 1953
Are we a family?

Do you think there's anyone on the forum that isn't manipulating people?

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 68
Are we a family?

i dont think there are very many people in the world that arent manipulating people, let alone in this forum...

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 5426
Are we a family?

I think "family" is definitely a too strong word for this online den. There are people here I genuinely like and respect, one of which I'm really hoping to meet in real life sooner or later. I think you get to "know" people here in ways you don't get to know in real life, even if it's only through their bullshit.

With online friends, though, it seems to be different. Less aggressive,
more freedom, privacy, and liberty from fear of being judged. :)

I really have to disagree with this though. We have a lot of aggresivity and judgement going on here, lmao.

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 5426
Are we a family?

On the other hand, ppl like "Jesus" here definitely spend a lot more time on this site than in real life, with their family, lovers and friends (if they even have any). This means they get emotionally and mentally very invested in this place, and like to interact with the posters here more than with offline people.

on 8/2/2013
Posts: 446
Are we a family?

Sounds like you're projecting little eddie... your obsession with me has taken a whole new level... try and psychoanalyse me all you want... you'll little mind will never understand me or how to be me as you so achingly desire...

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