by freefallin
by I Blend Too WellIBTW quote- ''I don't like having people in my life at all. But if they are around, they need to be trustworthy, otherwise they are shit to me.
Yes, I want people to believe I am trustworthy.
If someone betrays my trust, I want them dead.
Yes I can relate to the quote. If someone lies to me, they are never to be trusted again.
You must be extremely trustworthy yourself to think like this.
gotta love those scorpio-ish personalities...
by freefallinMy apologies for doubting the trustworthiness of many on this forum ...But...I have Faith some will answer these questions honestly
Is it important for you to have people in your life you can Trust?
Is it important for you to give the impression of being trustworthy ?
How do you feel when you have misjudged someone and they have betrayed your trust?
Do you seek revenge or can you let it go?
“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.â€
― Friedrich NietzscheCan you relate to this?
Did you betray the wrong person?
Is it important for you to have people in your life you can Trust?
- No. Not anymore
Is it important for you to give the impression of being trustworthy ?
- Mostly, but only if I need it, for example when it's a job that's good for my CV.
How do you feel when you have misjudged someone and they have betrayed your trust?
- hahaha hahahaha 'you might have seen me in a weak situation once, but I know your flaws and drives, what's the bigger mistake?' Crush them. I am not keen on forgiving anything or anyone.
Do you seek revenge or can you let it go?
- I'd rather seek revenge.
“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.â€
― Friedrich Nietzsche
Can you relate to this?
- I don't believe anyone, from what they tell me.
Everyone is guilty until proven innocent.
QDB - quote I don't believe anyone, from what they tell me.
Everyone is guilty until proven innocent.
...This is wise...best to err on the side of caution.
Gia- Quote ''gotta Love those sorpio-ish personalities....
Can be a pain in ass...but overall , I do LOVE them best. I Love their stubbornness and self righteousness.
Marcus quote - Did you betray the wrong person?
Yes. I have betrayed myself several times, by trusting too much. Sometimes I hit real lucky however
I don't think you trust with great ease and for good reason.
Betrayals tend to feed on each other. And yet there remains an exquisite sense of the value of trust and the ease of which it is lost. Conflicted approach to the questions when you already knew your answers.
It's an unfortunate world. But so it is.
Is it important for you to have people in your life you can Trust?
Yes, but instead of trusting the things they say, I trust their behaviors and typical patterns. Their actions are what I trust, not their words. If someone lies a lot, I can trust that they will continue to lie.
Is it important for you to give the impression of being trustworthy?
Yes, but in the definition that I follow trust as opposed to the typical one they would.
How do you feel when you have misjudged someone and they have betrayed your trust?
With the sort of trust I follow? Typically intrigued.
Do you seek revenge or can you let it go?
Wish I could claim the latter, but a few times the former was required.
by TurncoatYes, but instead of trusting the things they say, I trust their behaviors and typical patterns. Their actions are what I trust, not their words. If someone lies a lot, I can trust that they will continue to lie.
Good point and I strongly agree with you. Trust behaviours/patterns more than words. Actions speak loudly, as they say.
