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I never fully trust anyone. If they do break my trust it's no big deal. I don't let stuff like that bother me. I don't care enough for it to. People will be people.

by freefallin

Is it important for you to have people in your life you can Trust?

At present, no. I have no use for anyone at the moment.

I don't ever completely trust anyone anyway.

Is it important for you to give the impression of being trustworthy ?

It depends on the situation. If I need someone to trust me for a particular reason, then yes. If not, then no.

How do you feel when you have misjudged someone and they have betrayed your trust?

Do you seek revenge or can you let it go?

Again, it depends on the situation. If it's a minor betrayal, I'll let it go. If it's a major betrayal, I will seek revenge because it lets them, and anyone who is with them know that I'm not to be fucked with.

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

Can you relate to this?

 No. I never expect complete honesty from anyone.

''I never fully trust anyone. If they do break my trust it's no big deal. I don't let stuff like that bother me. I don't care enough for it to. People will be people.''

 

I dare say you would care, if the betrayal deprived you of something  either physically, materialistically, or mentally. Example: friend picks you up in his car; says he has not been drinking but he has. You have a car accident and you end up a paraplegic?

or

when a betrayal of confidence means you lose your livelihood; a career you Loved; friends you cared for or if it means you are sentenced to prison...... ...etc.

But as  previous poster said I guess it depends on the situation....

If someone betrays my trust for reasons I can understand...I  come around...

If their motive is unjustifiable in my eyes ( and I am fair minded ) ..I never will forgive.

 

My Golden  rule is to NEVER trust stupid people;especially disordered stupid people as these people often do not know they are stupid ( in fact can be delusional regarding this) and are unable to be discerning regarding the truth..when to tell, when not to.  

 

 

 

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I trust everyone will be human which means they will lie to get what they want and will always keep me at least number two.     I am always at least number two.  I hope I give off the impression of being just as selfish as the person in front of me.  

You do not feel regretful when you simply understand people, including me, are naturally selfish evil assholes.  

You won't feel so disappointed when you learn to look at others as if your looking at your self

by Edvard 0

''I trust everyone will be human which means they will lie to get what they want and will always keep me at least number two.     I am always at least number two.  I hope I give off the impression of being just as selfish as the person in front of me.  

You do not feel regretful when you simply understand people, including me, are naturally selfish evil assholes.  

You won't feel so disappointed when you learn to look at others as if your looking at your self''

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I thought having zero expectations of others would be enough...But a person betraying one's trust is less than zero. Didnt think I would have to go lower than that.

I am trustworthy and not naturally selfish, or evil . Therfore such people do not reflect a flawed self image as in your case. But  I have other mirrors for that...

Your words are not priest-like. The avi must have been chosen for the sexy mouth?

"Is it important for you to have people in your life you can Trust?"

Yes, absolutely. I wouldn't let anyone I didn't trust close to me. 

"Is it important for you to give the impression of being trustworthy?"

Yes. Trust is a two-way street. 

"How do you feel when you have misjudged someone and they have betrayed your trust?"

Hurt but wiser. 

Do you seek revenge or can you let it go? 

Depends on the offense. 

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” 

― Friedrich Nietzsche Can you relate to this?

Yes, the lie is realized in the present and happened in the past but the damaged trust represents a lost future. 

Is it important for you to have people in your life you can Trust?

I have two categories of information. Tell everyone or tell no one. I will very freely talk about my life to anyone that asks really. Eating disorders, depression, suicide attempts, etc. That stuff doesn't matter. 

But there is a lot of information I do not tell anyone and will go to the grave with me if it is not found out before then. I have no desire to tell anyone any of this information and am fine with just me knowing. So no - you could say it's not.

Is it important for you to give the impression of being trustworthy ?

If I want something from you. 

How do you feel when you have misjudged someone and they have betrayed your trust?

Like I said it's either all or tell no one. There's a difference between betraying my trust and just plain screwing me over. The latter is going to piss me off.

Do you seek revenge or can you let it go?

I seek revenge if I see an opportunity to right in front of me. But I don't go plotting revenge.  And honestly - the acts I count as revenge I would probably do if the person wronged me or not simply for fun. (yeah I have asshole personality disorder)

Can you relate to this?

Who said I believed them in the first place?

by freefallin

Is it important for you to have people in your life you can Trust?

yes

Is it important for you to give the impression of being trustworthy ?

it comes naturally for me. yes, i like knowing i give off that impression.

How do you feel when you have misjudged someone and they have betrayed your trust?

i dont misjudge people, i dont judge at all. i usually am spot on for seeing people as they are. it's my action i take against people that i tend to misjudge. people are only human and i continue to learn to accept that. my feeling towards their actions are always fleeting at best.

Do you seek revenge or can you let it go?

 i have done both. there is no normal course of action. i intuitively seem to act accordingly depending their truthfulness and honest change afterward. i very recently was "betrayed" and had all the pieces in place to crush this person entirely physically, emotionally, socially, financially and then walk away free and clear. but, do to their own actions and honesty afterwards i let it go and even let them keep money i had given, and hopefully will land this person a job with my connections. in doing so i gained more than i ever would have lost...

“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

Can you relate to this?

 Yes, i cannot honestly, personally relate to the complexity of true human emotions. one of my major flaws at times is i have never been a truly selfish person on any level. i expect people to do exactly what they would do. i somehow always seem to see people, things, and situations for exactly what they are. my frustration comes not from people lying to me, but because they cant be honest with themselves. a person who cant tell the truth to themselves can never truly be honest with you...