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How would she find you here? Know it's "you"?
The best thing you can do is be blunt and direct with her by informing
her there is zero chance of you two getting back together, then cut off
all contact.
Given what you say in first post, the above quote is exactly what I would do as well, except not even bother being blunt or letting them know. Just stop contact, and then no more contact. What's the point? Out of sight, out of mind. I can understand you "going along with it" if someone started posting saying they knew you, just to see what happens, hence this thread. Once the explanation is out of the way, just ignore.
I know him, i dated him, and I loved him.
This was years ago. He follows me around the internet from site to site. He posted here first because he saw it listed in the blog I read. They used to be public.
Now, He cheated, he lied , he left me twice. He married and had a baby.
I have appealed to him from the beginning to take this discussion off this site and use my regular email or the phone.
I have implemented boundaries and ultimatums. He has not honored them.
For those reasons I do not trust or respect him. Any love I had for him, he successfully killed.
I change for no one. I am fine the way I am.
And that thing he did, turning it around to make me look crazy? That is called gas-lighting.
His preferred prey- insecure, dis abled or fat masochists.
Women beware. I know he already got dildo tapes of Alia.
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