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Worst Stalking Stories? Victim/Predator?


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Out of the closet, or off your trophy shelf: 

What is your worst story of stalking? Horrible breakup? Preying or bullying someone?

 

PS this is NOT for people who can't tell their stories in ways that won't implicate someone

this is for people who do have a story that can be told in ways that don't

so NO I'm "not that stupid" but I did underestimate that people would suspect me of things I did not mean

I thought you knew better than that, but I guess I didn't and so I must be stupid in that sense. sorry!

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Trying to get us into trouble, emily?

I'm sure the police would love to see some of our stalking and preying stories.

As for horrible break-ups... I don't consider any of my past break-ups horrible, especially considering I'm the one that usually did the breaking up.

I have lots of bullying stories, but none worth bragging about.

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??? how is that any different from posting that you did illegal things? if you know what to say and how to say it, I trust you to do that or keep it to yourself. you know your own limits. So no, I'm not trying to get anyone in trouble cuz I trust you to know better than that. Maybe you did not think I trusted you to be smart enough? WTF???

I can write a general example big deal:

I posted a personal ad and got answered by a stand up Comic. We had very strong karma between us, I could sense it, and he kept hitting on me but he freaked me out. I could not be in the same room with him. He introduced me to a second comedian friend with their comedy troupe and I started writing sketches. It turned out I had already met one of their "former members," who quit after an incident where he was off his meds, was trying to take over control of the troupe, and ended up stalking him and chasing them around the parking lot with a tire iron. The Comic was scared to death of this guy. When he found out I had met him once several years ago, he got scared of me.

Suddenly anything I did with the other comedian friend was "stalking" the Comic. So the tables got turned on me. He had been hitting on me where I was desperately scared TO DEATH he would seduce me where I could not say no (I made the mistake of telling him I couldn't and I had begged him to stop). But now, because of this weird contact we had in the past, he suddenly became deathly afraid of me. This 200 lb 6'4' guy afraid to DEATH of a tiny Asian girl. WTF???

My other comedian friends thought this had to be a JOKE. Made no FU sense at all. But the more they joked, the more scared he was that I was somehow involved in whatever messed up that other guy? We never figured it out. All I knew was it got me off the hook. Because he was so scared of me, he left me ALONE or I would have gotten in big trouble. It was a saving grace. And I learned my lesson not to run personal ads that said I was Asian. Big mistake.

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by emilynghiem

 ??? how is that any different from posting or boasting that you did illegal things?

There's a difference between admitting you've done illegal things and telling stories about them, which would involve sharing some details. Assuming the story is actually true, of course.

 

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Not exactly stalking but this one dude locked me in a bathroom with him and tried to convince me I was his soul mate.  It was the second time I'd ever hung out with him.

He also took the doorknob off of his own apartment because my friend who is kind of a total dick was fucking with his computer, and tried to make this other girl jump out a window.  Fortunately my friend told her not to and she listened to him instead of the crazy guy and got him to put the doorknob back.

After all of that he tried to ask me out.  I said maybe and never saw him again.

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by emilynghiem

Out of the closet, or off your trophy shelf: 

What is your worst story of stalking? Horrible breakup? Preying or bullying someone?

 Emily how stupid do you think we are?

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 Are you sure youre not lunas nerdy cousin from beijing?

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No, obviously I trusted you all to be smart enough to know how to say things.

I think what I underestimated is how much you would distrust me, and wouldn't think I trusted you to be smart enough. So I revised my message above, is that more clear?

And Hey hypercube told a story that worked.

You can always tell a story that happened to someone else.

I figured you'd know how to say things if you wanted to, or else not say it. So what. I trust YOU not to be stupid!

 

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 I've been accused of looking like Yoko Ono, does that count?

And if I were from Beijing, I would've been aborted or sold into slavery, not typing online.

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C'mon everyone has stories that are horrible but not illegal.

I guess if you have enemies watching you online who would use that anyway, who knows.

And this is the internet, so people could embellish it and then explain it was altered to prevent liability so what.

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