??? how is that any different from posting that you did illegal things? if you know what to say and how to say it, I trust you to do that or keep it to yourself. you know your own limits. So no, I'm not trying to get anyone in trouble cuz I trust you to know better than that. Maybe you did not think I trusted you to be smart enough? WTF???
I can write a general example big deal:
I posted a personal ad and got answered by a stand up Comic. We had very strong karma between us, I could sense it, and he kept hitting on me but he freaked me out. I could not be in the same room with him. He introduced me to a second comedian friend with their comedy troupe and I started writing sketches. It turned out I had already met one of their "former members," who quit after an incident where he was off his meds, was trying to take over control of the troupe, and ended up stalking him and chasing them around the parking lot with a tire iron. The Comic was scared to death of this guy. When he found out I had met him once several years ago, he got scared of me.
Suddenly anything I did with the other comedian friend was "stalking" the Comic. So the tables got turned on me. He had been hitting on me where I was desperately scared TO DEATH he would seduce me where I could not say no (I made the mistake of telling him I couldn't and I had begged him to stop). But now, because of this weird contact we had in the past, he suddenly became deathly afraid of me. This 200 lb 6'4' guy afraid to DEATH of a tiny Asian girl. WTF???
My other comedian friends thought this had to be a JOKE. Made no FU sense at all. But the more they joked, the more scared he was that I was somehow involved in whatever messed up that other guy? We never figured it out. All I knew was it got me off the hook. Because he was so scared of me, he left me ALONE or I would have gotten in big trouble. It was a saving grace. And I learned my lesson not to run personal ads that said I was Asian. Big mistake.