Yeah, crazy lady listen to that! HC, you cut to the chase and crack me up. Good reply.
Hey there JaK70,
She's a negative influence on the people you care about. I used to work with a girl that was a sociopath, she flirted with everyone, borrowed money and didn't pay it back, and my supervisor (male) let her get away with it all. I started documenting all the times she showed up late, or came back from break late, and that she lied about her experience to get hired. Long story short, she ended up getting fired as a result of my documentation.
Your stepdaughter's mom sounds like a piece of work, and it won't take long for the people you trust to see that she's a destructive influence. You have nothing to be afraid of, if she lies about you, they'll know she's lying, and will expose her for what she truly is.
I wish you the best,
C. May
by VirusThoughts? Ignore her... She's getting to you way too much. She's winning.
Yeah, this is what I'm leaning toward, giving her any power is my least favorite idea, even if it meant revealing to "her people" what she really is. I think if they dump her, she will focus in more on us. I did draft a letter and just doing that made me feel better, even with out sending it.
by hypercubeYou want a scheme to deny a mother her legal visitation rights to her own child around the holidays because she annoys you?
You sound like a terrible person.
I hope you fail at whatever you try and it backfires in your face (:
You sound like someone who doesn't have good reading comprehension.
I want her to stop bothering treating my husband like an object and stop seeking money from him she is NOT justified in asking for. I have no problem in her visiting with her own daughter. All her "sociopath" behavior does is prove what a pile she is.
I would LOVE to expose her for what she really is, IF I thought she would re-direct her stupidity somewhere else. Seeing as how I doubt she will, I will probably NOT send the letter. But writing a draft sure did make me feel better.
Thank you for the clarification but I don't believe you.
"giving her any power is my least favorite idea"
Really? You're worried about giving her power? Not money, not custody of the child, not creating a clusterfuck family drama situation that some poor 11 year old is going to have to witness? This is about power for you? I guess that's why you're asking on a sociopath forum instead of a forum to discuss family/custody legal issues.
I hope your husband sets up a trust fund for his daughter's future therapy bills because he just traded one crazy bitch for a crazier one.
by hypercubeThank you for the clarification but I don't believe you.
"giving her any power is my least favorite idea"
Really? You're worried about giving her power? Not money, not custody of the child, not creating a clusterfuck family drama situation that some poor 11 year old is going to have to witness? This is about power for you? I guess that's why you're asking on a sociopath forum instead of a forum to discuss family/custody legal issues.
I hope your husband sets up a trust fund for his daughter's future therapy bills because he just traded one crazy bitch for a crazier one.
It looks like you could use a reading comprehension refresher too..
"I would LOVE to expose her for what she really is, IF I thought she
would re-direct her stupidity somewhere else. Seeing as how I doubt she
will, I will probably NOT send the letter. But writing a draft sure did
make me feel better."
No visitation change, a re-direction of her negativity away from my family. AND if she is in fact looking for money for drugs, AGAIN, maybe the people in her life that support her sobriety will call her on it and HELP her... so her daughter doesn't HAVE TO deal with the torture of a DRUGGED out mom AGAIN.