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No matter what you do, something of your life has ownership over you. To be completely free is impossible.

The control is simply either indirect or based on your needs.

Ergo, Thrill, why I say your insecurities invites the control...

I'm really a dog on LSD.

by Virus

Ergo, Thrill, why I say your insecurities invites the control...

I have a lot of confidence in myself and my abilities and I have high self-esteem. So, I would say that you're either projecting or your simply trying to pick a fight. Either way, it's not me that has the issues. It's you.

by Turncoat

No matter what you do, something of your life has ownership over you. To be completely free is impossible.

The control is simply either indirect or based on your needs.

 So, what you're saying is that we are all controlled by something, no matter what we do or how we feel?

That's a rather negative outlook, isn't it.

I have control over the choices I make in life. I decide when I want to eat, shit and sleep. I decide whether or not I want to go out or stay at home. Nothing controls those choices, except me.

(well, my body might decide when I need to eat, shit and sleep, but I still have control over when they're actually done)

You may have control over the choices you make in life, but other factors strongly influence what choice will be made. There's very little we can do that isn't mostly predetermined by our past experiences and nature.

Possibly, I think it's because I have full lips, big eyes and high cheek bones. I like androgenousness in people's looks.

And yes, I do agree with you all people do do a lot of projecting. I am not sure why that is but I think it's innocent.

This is a rubber / glue thing going on here... Imagine you saying someone is projecting.  I'm not trying to fight with you, I'm trying help you.  You express your insecurities with all your defensiveness.  I don't need to know how secure you say you are... You need to start being honest with yourself.  Ironically, its quite liberating.

I don't particularly care how honest with myself you think I need to be. The fact that I already am means you're wasting your time telling me something that is clearly pointless.