I know. I have to keep up the impression that Eddie is correct in thinking I'm an idiot. And I'm really curious as to how many posts we can exchange before there is a theory we're the same person.
Isn't importance relative to the people?
What if Edvard has unfinished business here, and needs to interact or have closure with certain people he had conflicts with before going away. What if unrelated people, like me, learn something just by reading msgs posted back and forth, even if it is indirect.
I happen to be curious, as to why he says he has a darker sociopathic side, and supposedly has these stalker/exes/puppets following him around, but then he posts his email address openly? And posts openly about fixing this or that, or wanting confirmation of things? Most guys I know with ego issues keep that to themselves so they don't appear weak. They play control games, put up a huge front, and overcompensate. Just call people stupid or other names, and expect that to end the discussion. They don't talk about their fears, or analyze issues of others, and communicate with other people. What's up with that? Just curious.
I prefer to know the real range of a person so I can put things in perspective. Don't have to know all details, just know the limits and bounds so I can stay within their normal range. Otherwise, if I don't know and cross some bounds, I can scare people if they think I did that on purpose. Rather know in advance.
Dear SensitiveSoul and Edvard: If there is a particular person that is the issue, then projecting this fear trying to control outside factors "around that person" is not going to solve the real problem. Edvard, there are lots of scary people out there. If it isn't this person, any person can hack into anything and get information.
What makes this person any more dangerous than anyone else who could cause trouble to you?
If you figure out what is going on with YOUR side of this equation, you won't project that onto Sensy, or me worrying I am some ex of yours, or the next person who happens to trigger this fear. Part of that fear is in YOU and this person is triggering and aggravating it.
This person is the symbolic trigger, but is not the cause. Can you root this out so it will be reduced to a normal fear and not a projected one?
You will feel greater peace in all your relations if you take care of the part of this that is on your side of the fence. Not all of it is coming from this dangerous person you fear.
If that is the real issue here, the sooner you address it, then everything else will fall into place, into proper perspective.
Also, if you or others were playing games with masked ID to confuse people, maybe some of this added fear from not knowing who is who or hiding or gaming, is just karma coming back. Another reason not to play these puppet games. it does interfere with security, doesn't it.
Thanks Edvard. Indirectly you helped make a point. Maybe there is a good use of rules, where people who act orderly make it more clear who REALLY has ill intent in undercutting the rules. Those people stand out, instead of blending in with the crowd. If we all act chaotically, whether we mean ill or just joking, it's distracting and harder to tell who is really causing the threats, right?
So maybe breaking the rules just to have fun, makes it harder to detect those who are really trying to muck things up for people. Good point, thanks for that. I hope things do straighten out around here so you can enjoy yourself without that disruptive fear getting in the way. Whatever is causing problems can be fixed.
Holy shit, Emily...
This is a forum for sociopaths and other troubled individuals, it's not really one person I want to be cautious around and that's it. I don't know and don't trust almost anyone here. I hate stalkers, I've had some bad experiences in real life with them, alright?