Cheers Ed,
but tell me...does your sense of pride make you over think things, over-process at times, to ensure that failure isnt imminent, thus preventing a dented pride/ego?
by Lycani think i might actually be capable of great things...
define "great" things please gia.
also, these talents you have, why did you acquire them?..... to what purpose?
i dont actually know, i just feel some of these talents could benefit others in some good way....
i'm literally what you would call a "Jack of all Trades". i have outstanding comprehensive skills and can become proficient in almost any skill i choose to undertake.
i've only acquired most of them through either necessity at that point in time or just sheer interest, many i dont even use anymore
proficient of many things...master of none.....:(
the saddest men in the world aren't the ones that are good at nothing or only good at one thing. it's the man that has the skills and abilities to do or be whatever he wishes, but doesnt have the direction or motivation to be anything.......this is burden of the HSP
Lycan, ???
What my comment referred to, was that I can't imagine those words coming out of his mouth. It has nothing to do with ego, nor am I insulting him.
That was typed by someone other than Gia.
He is a very talented person and he has a lot to offer to people. He is very capable. I am laughing at the notion of him describing himself as a HSP.
I am just saying, this doesn't sound like him. With everyone and their different accounts...
Gee-I am NOT a favorite around here.
I know it sounds funny but sometimes the best way to work things out is to simply start talking about it to yourself.
Find a comfortable place where you can feel relaxed. Put a mirror in that room but against a wall where you can't see it. Then.. allow yourself to think about it but separate yourself from who you were because you really aren't that child anymore and it's not fair to punish that child.. cause that's what you are doing. You are punishing that child.
So walk over to that mirror, look at yourself. This is who you are and not a child anymore. You have grown up. You always remember this terrible mistake not because you would do it again but because who you ae is ashamed of that child and who you are now.. is angry st who you were for being so weak.
YOU WERE A CHILD!!!!! Look at who you are now.
All this growing you have done lays on the foundation of this suffering your EGO anguishes over.
That child you constantly torture.. that child is who made you who you are today. That child is the reason you learned.
So look in that mirror and tell yourself to stop torturing that child. Because of that child.. you are now so much more. That child has always been the strength that guided you to be a better person and you always thought that child was weak but no.. that child has always been the foundation of your strength.
So look in the mirror and forgive that child. You know that child isn't nearly as good as you are. The only reason you judge that child so hard is because that is you and you are always harder on yourself.. aren't you?
Another sign of a good caring person is their convictions but sadly sometimes people convict themselves prematurely. There's a reason the law tries to protect people who are under 18 from being prosecuted on their perm record for petty crimes (not murder). Kids do dumb things... That feeling you get when you look back at things you did as a child and you're like "Man.. I was dumb" and you feel embarrassed. That's because who you are today would never do something that silly but as a child you lacked that experience or knowledge.
Have you ever seen the movie Back to the Future? How he goes back in time, changes the smallest thing, and BAM.. the entire world is changed. Your mind is JUST LIKE THAT. What you experience as a child is amplified in your existence.
As your brain evolves it begins to create associative organizations. Anything not socially recognized by other cells is discarded in favor of like cells (social cells ) but the psychology of it is this..
Your environment molds your very existence, personality, everything yet just like those funny movies where there are twins separated at birth on other sides of the world but.. they happen to do the same jobs or have something strikingly in common.. That's genetics. Those people might feel the same but one will be a gangster and the other a cop. They are naturally drawn to certain behaviors but what they do is dependent on how they were raised to react to these situations. Maybe one guy is taught to be calm and relaxed while the other was taught to punch you in the face ca use he's the bad boy of society and the other is Mr Nice Guy. Oh the humor in reality.
You have free will. The very nature of your choices displays that you have free will to do what you will according to how you interpreted childhood. Isn't that individuality? Also the normal mind is so consciously distorted that only the most critical needs of the body seem to be recognized until it forces the subconscious to force the ego into a logical error loop and force an emotional breakdown where the person lays crying and suffering.
BTW when they say childhood is the most critical time in a child emotional development.. they pretty much mean the first 6 years of school. If you don't break your child but lying to them and tricking them and actually just be truthful to them in a nonabrasive manner but honest manner.. it will help their emotional development. Parenting is often failed by the current societies as they do not have the knowledge required to properly approach their kids ca use no one just told them... BE HONEST. TELL THE KIDS THE TRUTH.
How can a child develop a proper ego in life when you are lying to them during their emotional development?!
Also while you're looking in the mirror. You might want to tell the child version of you that you love her for helping you become who you are. It's funny to talk to yourself but it actually helps cause when you see what you are doing to yourself and you realize how you are hurting WHO YOU ARE for things that a silly child did.. doesn't it seem stupid?
You know why it's not stupid? Cause it's sad. Not you punishing yourself though. That is a normal reaction when you don't understand feelings caused by moral conflict..
No faith ever condemned children for being children. All children went to Heaven by default because even God knew children were just children and often people are refereed to as children by religions. This is because everyone knows there is the Age of Innocents unless you start killing people.. even God knows you were just a child for he sees who you are now.
Now that I reflect back though it is silly isn't it? Here you were thinking you were bad or wrong or broken but no.. everything you did was a normal reaction. Even the guilt you felt is normal and how you try to make yourself a better person.. just means that even though your parents screwed up.. well you are the result.
Parents aren't perfect but you could have turned out a lot more messed up.
Under the logic of science of doctrine of religions I deem you all NORMAL. You may forgive yourself and maybe looking in the mirror and telling that child you forgive her for being.. a child and not knowing..
People who have ghost limbs.. that's how they get rid of that sensation that they have a leg still. They look in the mirror and touch the area where it used to be. Cause a lot of time sub processes such as, what you did as a child, that you can't correctl y organize with other structures in your mind.. will stikout and bother you psychologically beause you don't understand.
So when I talk to people I add the unconscious structure that is missing in their thoughts and by doing so I give them measurable knowledge that goes far beyond their conscious and actually explains to the unconscious mind as well.. why they should love themselves.
The reason these people usually stay sick is because no one ever explains the truth to them. They get lied to and people try to convince them it is something else but deep inside they KNOW what it is but they don't know why..
I can tell you why and what I say is the truth ALL of your brain can measure and appreciate.