Liberating, isn't it Lycan? To be able to talk freely without fear. What a concept, no?
If you're jealous, what is stopping you from spiritually letting go the same way. Not to worry, it's highly contagious. people secretly want to run around mentally naked in our original innocence. All this posturing and poo poo are fig leaves to cover up.
the more forgiving we are of yourself and others, the barriers come down. but it tends to evolve mutually. fearful people compete to keep their walls up, throwing extra bricks at others to keep them away. very childish to those who get it. there is no need to put up more walls when those who do the most throwing already have their own walls! why waste bricks that could build bridges, roads, and cool stuff.
so people like Grandma who don't waste energy building walls to hide behind, what does that tell you? What ways or areas are you equally free to talk about yourself?