Sorry TK, I think I did poke that daddy-bear a little to hard.
jesus! you guys turned this into a bitch fest!
what's wrong with being butch?! it's the modern times, for fuck sake! gay marriage is legal, it is perfectly ok to be a feminine dude as it is perfectly ok to be a butch woman, or a chick with a dick! nothing wrong with that.
just b/c she doesn't strike your fancy doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with the way she looks.