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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?


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Not only do people rarely want to admit a flaw about themselves, they are always quick to explain to others that they shouldn't "judge" them. People act like it's the worst thing in the world for someone to judge you.

Why does this make them feel like a less of a person because someone judged them? Whether they realize it or not, everyone makes a judgement about everyone. They just don't always speak their mind and let their opinion of the person be known. So before you even tell someone not to judge you, they've already done it. To me when someone says "don't judge me", I add "insecure" onto whatever else I thought of them.

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

 I can honestly say that I have never said, "Don't judge me". I have also never said the phrase, "Nobody's perfect," to excuse myself after fucking up. 

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

i say "don't judge me" to my best friend when he's being a total hater. :) otherwise i judge others all the time and expect to be judged in return, it's fair. 

sometimes i'm not judging and the other party for whatever imaginary reason feels like it's being judged and asks me to not, which in turn makes me think that it must be an insecurity thing so i start judging. hahahaha! 

i fully agree that it is an insecurity thing, but the vast majority of us has insecurities so sooner or later we're bound to feel it to various degrees.  

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

 You are a moron. Stop labeling people as "haters". You remind me of that homophobic Jonah Mowry kid. Don't even try to associate yourself with me.

It's people like you that make me hate the whole world, I mean seriously. You're scum.

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

Juding based on sometihng is okay.

Jumping to conclusions because it confirms the own view is just annoying.

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

you are too funny. calm the fuck down, nobody's shaking your cage.  

that wasn't what my comment was about at all. 

i'm ok with being labeled as scum, your opinion doesn't matter and neither does mine. ;)

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

 I've seen that from someone here countless times. As suggested, this type happens to be a certified hater. It looks like an insecurity to me, and though I'm sure I judge others correctly, it doesn't always mean I won't stick around for their rubbish.

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

 

by Spatial Mind

though I'm sure I judge others correctly,

 See emily what I mean about arrogant assholes too blind to admit/see they're wrong?

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

 Well Ed. Isn't it obvious that you'd be pleased to turn Emily against me. That's how I judged your action. Am I right ?

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Are you one of those people who always say "don't judge me"?

 That assumes that emily has no will of her own.

youre being paranoid.

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