Sociopath Community

 CORRECTION: It was "CuteCreep" not Tesseract

Hey [cutecreep] here's  your chance.

Ask your friend to help you give advice to this person on how he chooses whom to charm and which tactics to use.

Tell him you noticed he manages people well, so how does he get all these girls to fall for him, can he explain it to this person asking online?

There you go! and maybe he can tutor you how to get that "guy in your other class" to take interest in you...

Dear Blah: the guys on here may not answer, but Tesseract or cutecreep may know someone in real life who might answer your questions. Can you hook up and swap notes?

Thanks a lot! :)

I'm just curious how do socios sniff out the right prey? What is it that makes one a better pick than the next person?

Also, as far as control is concerned, if one decides to have another person under his or her power / charm and he or she is successful, then what? What keeps a socio hooked. If I wanted to conquer someone, after succeeding wouldn't I move on to another challenge? What keeps a socio hooked, why stick around? Or is it like a video game, there is always the next level, the game doesn't end until you have exhausted all ideas and possibilities? That would make sense, as long as the other person is letting you have your way with them there is no reason to stop, I guess. 

Honestly, I find sociopath's thought process fascinating, it seems so logical and tidy, I'd like to learn from it. 

Thanks for your help! :)

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1. body language and vibes

the red book on the reading list, on what can we learn from serial killers and saints, mentions a study done where SP could pick people out from videos which ones had been victims of crime multiple times before. they said they could tell from the way they walked. crime prevention experts say that awareness of surroundings or level of distraction can tip off attackers to easy targets.

2. spiritual vibes or even spirits themselves

The same way good people can read positive vibes and hear angel messages

the people on the evil dark energy wavelengths can pick up negatives or demons

the people who can read both, who can read more than others are the ones who are most forgiving and won't abuse the knowledge. so the more you forgive and let go of fears and unforgiveness, you can see more warnings to avoid problems.

3. I have read into people's history by interpreting 'between the lines' of what they type and say. somehow being experienced with drama over typical conflicts, and how third parties interact, just a brief description can reveal a lot more depth.

So I use that intuition to help ppl resolve their conflicts so they don't get abused or oppressed by them. someone with ill intent can just as easily abuse it to take advantage of people's fear in avoiding or suppressing these conflicts which makes them susceptible to manipulation. political parties do this all the time for control.  

by blabla011

so, if you wouldn't mind sharing with me how and why you pick certain people, what do you get from different types of manipulation, what does having control over someone mean to you exactly

Some people show weakness more than others. It's almost like they've got a big, red target on them just asking for someone to attack them (though sometimes looking like the prey is the best way to catch the prey). Other people are preyed on because they're either sexually appealing, they're victims of opportunity, or they could just have something the sociopath wants.

Manipulation is a tool to get what we want, whether it be money or some other desire. Different manipulative techniques exist because certain types of manipulation are more effective at obtaining certain desires.

To me, control means power. Having control over people is an expression of that power.

Haha! I know what you mean, some people are just asking for it, it's sad but true. We have a saying back home that says "sheep are used for their fur", in other words if you're an obvious sucker you will be taken advantage of.

Interesting what you say about manipulation, that makes perfect sense too. I tend to pick wolves in sheep's clothing, it's definitely a good tactic.

Does manipulation ever happen for "emotional" reasons, like for the purpose of being loved and admired to a certain degree? You guys are not necessarily insecure and needy, so I'm not assuming that, but I did come across a few cases where I could have sworn that this was the game.

Thanks for answering in either case!

Manipulation is done for materialistic reasons, not emotional ones. Though, I can see narcissistic sociopaths (sociopaths who also have NPD) using manipulation to boost their own ego and feed their insecurities. They usually seek emotional supply - admiration.

Right, right, I know that.

Thanks in either case for replying and for the insight. Much appreciated!  

 I think she killed herself.  She seemed emotionally disturbed.

Why do people automatically view sociopaths in this romantic light? Is it because they've never truly had a relationship with one and they just assume it will be a certain way?