I tried to answer your question but I couldn't, because I don't know.
I don't have any goals right now, I'm just existing.
Fuck.
It's fine if you don't know. Since that is the case, you owe it to yourself to figure some of it out first.
I think you need a game plan here.
Your goal is to do more than exist. Your goal (based solely on this thread) is to keep someone in your life. I am just asking you to see if maybe that's the best goal for you. Thinking on it, I believe all I am really saying is: be selfish. Be selfish right now.
(Also, you do not have to answer my questions and you don't have to answer anyone else's. You can think about them for yourself. The more you say around some people, like the person on your mind, the more you expose yourself. Silence is a damn good answer.)
As I read this thread... I realise how common these situations must be... I can see myself being the guy in this conversation (multiple times to multiple women)... infact these are many of the things women have said and I'm sure thought or wondered about me...
My advice, do what makes you happy, because that's exactly what he's going to do.
by DamagedI say we get all Amish and shun her.
Obviously you're being sarcastic there, but there's clearly some truth in your statement. After all, it's been made very clear I'm not wanted here by a few people at least, with Lycan going so far as to tell me he would kill me if I were in his neighborhood.
What would you all achieve by shunning me? Or better yet, what do you stand to lose by simply accepting my presence here?
I am not sure about most males, but women i'm not sleeping with hold little to no appeal to me. I have a strong urge to dominate the things I want and when that's applied to women, domination usually means ownership through sex. when i find a woman intellectually stimulating, I usually get her to sleep with me or cut her off (which usually makes her want to sleep with me to obtain my affection again.) So i imagine if you put this guy (who seems a lot like me) in friend zone he's either gonna want you more or cut you off. depending how you play it out.