Is too. Only a god can love like you say.
I suppose I mean it's a choice to act (or not) in the name of/through love.
Foremost, it's a word we decided means a deep inclination/affection for something/someone, but that could be both passing or lasting.
Who decided that? Who is "we"?
I think anyone can love, including dispassionate types, sociopaths, and flakes, because the term is subjective enough that it can be scaled to fit the individual's level of devotion or ability to be interested in or more profoundly than usual affected by something.
And here you contradict what you just said above, by saying it is subjective, rather than something this mysterious "we" had "decided". You just rendered the word meaningless here as well, by making it a placemarker for whatever people "decide" it is at any given moment. Might as well replace the word love with __.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.