"(Take notice that the questions are addressed to sociopaths, if you're not one, move along please and save the space for other commenters)."
There was nothing to really 'accept' prior to getting diagnosed (with AsPD and Schizoid PD in my case). I didn't understand what my personality disorders even were until a psychologist explained them to me.
In my opinion, I'm normal. It's the rest of the world that's fucked up.
The way I see it, labels only matter in a therapist's office or a courtroom.