the theme is.... themeless.
it's saposed to look underground. it's saposed to be indescriminant
this isn't sociopath world. sociopath world is a blog ran by a blogger who really doesn't care that her website seems to have spawned a community. this community is the child of that blog, but it is not that blog itself.
i don't think ME is a bad person, but she clearly doesn't seem to make a hobby out of nurturing her community in anyway. i'm guessing she is just busy with her relationships in real life, she hasn't time to take the time to read through the threads, and as a result simply hasn't taken an interest. it's simply something that exists as a result of her actions but she is completely dissasociated with.
she values it so little that she basicly refuses hosting. nabble forced advertising, but they let her have free hosting, and since we have no advertisements, and she still wants to not pay anything (likely because it's inconveinant), we lose monies. it's not a huge deal, i think you guys are worth it, but i think it does say how careless she is.
also, i have seen quite a few threads that were quite hostile toward her. i remember when some members were hostile toward me for ahwile and it made me not want to visit this community at all. i imagine ME could easily feel the same way.
by Luna Preythis isn't sociopath world. sociopath world is a blog ran by a blogger who really doesn't care that her website seems to have spawned a community. .
she's a busy sociopath, Luna. What would you expect?
We need no central leader. You provide the basis for the communication but the rest is loose and free, as it has to be, if the forum wishes to be a kid of home for sociopath, where we can speak our minds more freely.
The book and the blog are very serious and there's a community of people who comment there. ME did her part, we must keep it up
"this isn't sociopath world. sociopath world is a blog ran by a blogger who really doesn't care that her website seems to have spawned a community. this community is the child of that blog, but it is not that blog itself."
I'm aware of that, but because there is a connection to the blog, what harm could there be in naming the header Sociopath World Community Forum?
because i think sociopath world is a very immature name. sociopath community is functional. it's to the point. it's mature. this isn't a planet. 
also, consider the name sociopath community. to have that name and apear first in google-- it tells web surfers that you are the #1 sociopath community on the web. when you find sociopath world, you think... oh, well this is just a small community with a unique name. it's not the main community of the web.
i want this community to be the main sociopath community on the web.
It would be misleading to call the header Sociopath Community because that makes it sound as though this is a community for sociopaths only.
I honestly do not see how the header I suggested was immature. It was direct and to the point.
The word Community alone doesn't give potential new members any sense of what this forum is about.