by Lycan
No, the difference is in HOW I want it.
I make no bones about my selfish nature, but to elbow aside, the persons presence , mind and thoughts constantly, will diminish their response to you. What is a few minutes, seconds more , to recieve their WHOLE self, as opposed to jumping immediately on to a limp, lifeless sack of potatoes with a vagina?
I never indicated that you should constantly elbow people aside, nor did I indicate that I do. I've had quite a few relationships in the past, so I know all about them. Now fair enough, I'm a bit more maladaptive than you, so I've had trouble maintaining them, but I do understand where you're coming from.
The thing with me is I'm very focused on instant gratification, I'm possessive and controlling and I only want people around me when it suits me, so I'm not really suited to relationships.
I'd rather have a slave who I can just fuck when I want and lock away when I don't.