dr Al Carlisle (violentmind.com) who is a forensic psychologist who evaluated Ted Bundy, among other serial killers and violent offenders. He speculates that the psychopath, as a child, is extremely emotionally sensitive, then subjected to traumas that result in psychopathy as we know it. :(
This sounds very accurate. As a child I was very sensitive. I still man, though I have learned to restrain it some. I believe had I been supjected to an early trauma or abuse I could have turned out much differently. As it were I tried to choke myself to death with a pair of shoe laces when my mother was too busy on the phone to speak to me. A simple slight. I can only imagine if she had truly neglected me what my response might have been.
I don't say that to mean I am insulted by the implication of being Borderling. Merely that it is a fact that I am not one. I simply do not fit the criteria. And she left me. She was rapped before meeting me and i suspect this makes closness very difficult for her. I was the first person she had slept with since her attack. And we became very close very quickly. This must have been too difficult for her.
Not in the least. In fact she always seemed strong and confident. Unpredictable even to herself, but confident. It rarely came up. The attack had happened two years before her meeting me. She mentioned that when we had sex it was sometimes difficult but that it got much easier. I was always very tender and supportive. In all areas our relationship was very easy and care free. We both very much enjoyed each others company.