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 Wow.

 anastacia understands you really well too

 Hey I used to play aion and was a cleric. 

The fact that you play this role interests me. Do you enjoy the power in deciding who lives and who dies? I see those that play healers as a bit sadistic because that's how I approach it. 

 i knew i liked you

 Healers play an important role. So, yes, I like knowing that it's up to me who lives and dies.

Have you tried tanking? It's similar for the "who lives and dies" thing, although in a different way. Healer/Tank pairings are great fun for queueing into random groups, as they together can pretty much browbeat the group's bullshit into following their lead. I'd pick up tanking myself if I didn't find it a little disorienting.

I like warlock/necromancer-like classes. I love DoTs, minions, and the self healing that comes with it.

 Same.  Nearly any game, self-sufficiency and diversity attract me.  Necromancers in most games end up strong in both areas.  I have played many healers in the past, but they ultimately end up getting no credit.  So when some braindead tank complains about almost dying (thinking they are invincible, and it's your fault you can't keep them alive in the midst of their idiotic rampage), I let him taste real pain and let him manage on his own a couple times and see the real difference.  Part of the reason Guild Wars 2 has appealed is being able to heal yourself and everyone can rez everyone.

That's why that game bothers me. They took my power away and people can just heal themselves. I still play an ele though and just pretend I'm in control.

I just like being able to watch them die an inch at a time, while I sap their strength and make it my own.

Parasitic fighting styles appeal to me, and minions are great for running distraction during.

 Yes, I have characters that can tank as well.

When it comes to dungeons, I prefer to tank more than heal. Healing is kinda boring. Tanking is where the action is. I really only like using a healing class in the battleground.