You put your hand over his mouth and blocked his nose?
You sat on his face and took a shit?
This reminds me of my first narc who led me to believe he was rather adventerous. When things ended he let me know I was too kinky for him because he thought breath play was insane.
Warmer still... Edit: I should say hot. It was a chain...
You asked him to choke you?
You put him in a sleeper hold?
Don't tell me that putting your hands around his neck caused all that drama... Edit: If that's it, I can understand why you didn't think it was such a big deal.
No.
It was a chain. I had it under my pillow. I didn't ask permission to use it.
I just caught your edit. Sweet. :) So you surprised him with it, I gather?