You are easily manipulated. You're being manipulated right now, and you're too dumb to even realize it. It is the height of comedic irony that someone who resorts to spouting "cock" and "vagina" like a broken jack-in-the-box the minute someone challenges him should call anyone else retarded.
You're the one being controlled and dominated here, Jay. That is not a figment of anyone's imagination: it is plain for everyone to see. But like a typical narcissist, you default to derisive condescension, and simplistic defense mechanisms when confronted with the truth, appeasing your ego with delusions, rather than facing the truth about yourself, and growing beyond your limitations.