You keep leaving me such lovely little tokens of your affection, as though I actually gave a shit, as opposed to just giving me fodder with which to punt you around. :P
Where did you get that idea? My husband likes to have a few on weekends, too. Sometimes I'll go out with my friends, but I'm not all that fond of socializing without a pragmatic purpose undergirding the occasion. And to be frank, it's hard for me to not be predatory towards women when I'm out having a good time. I have poor impulse control, and I become even more disinhibited when I'm tipsy, so I avoid putting myself in a position where I might be enticed by the prospect of seducing some giddy little ditz who's had too much ot drink, especially if I sense she's slightly intimidated or put off by my intensity. I suck at resisting temptation. :P
No. He was a drug dealer, but all he ever consumed was pot and cocaine. Eventually, he gave up the coke. He's not a big drinker. My mother's father was an alcoholic, though.
My husband is possessive, and so am I. We have chosen to live a monogamous lifestyle, to protect our marriage. I messed up once, and that was enough.