Is BPD really the right listing for her issues?
I figure that she projects on me as hard as she does for a reason.
I think BPD is one of many issues, probably the least of her issues. It probably started with BPD and warped. She comes across as paranoid and with some npd and histrionic as well.
Like I said, she likely projects onto me for a reason.
I'm in the system as Schizoaffective (unipolar mania with paranoid symptoms), so maybe there's some parallels going on?
Schizoaffective disorder is a little different. ... In bipolar disorder, you have mood swings that include depression and mania. If you have schizoaffective disorder, you can have these bipolar symptoms. But separate from those, you also get psychotic symptoms similar to schizophrenia for at least 2 weeks at a time.
I witnessed several guys from here manipulate her. She feeds off attention and seems to be yearning for meaningful connection.
I saw it more as her wanting to be believed. Cassandra Complex woes perhaps? It's pretty common in paranoia types, as it's a way to direct fear towards yet another source.
What really fucks with paranoid types is their assuming that those feelings MUST have a cause, looking for context to attach to instead of looking within and seeing how the feelings precede the events.
The one thing I'm certain is that she isn't is psychopathic. Too fragile and angry.
Agreed, but that lot can still go psychotic, and if anything may find an easier time doing so.
I do like her though, although I get she's too erratic for all the site she's been on so far and likely won't be coming back.
I do miss how her and I's conversations would sometimes go, during what times she trusts me anyway.
She also has not shown herself to be impervious to hearing out other people... she just has a delay between hearing it, rebuking it, picking it back up later, and then analyzing the content further.
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