I am not claiming to be a full blown "masochist", but I do have some masochistic traits along with some sadistic traits. Along with some very kind loving empathetic traits and wanting to be treated nicely in return. I have a mix of all of those
I thought we were at peace. I mean... we're just slinging Disney at each other.
I guess I would like you to be more respectful and supportive of me choosing to follow my heart, and understand that I am aware of other peoples warnings and opinions and do not ignore them but instead take them into consideration and let those warnings and opinions help guide me in following my heart, because I would like to maintain my friendship with you, and I feel that if you understood me better that it would be easier for you to be supportive of me enjoying following my heart
Also I would like permission to choose which masochistic indulgences and pain I prefer having in my life lol
You want permission from me?
Nah like, I get that you're going to do you no matter what happens, but I need the room to air out my disagreeance with it when you open the floor for discussions over it.
You want permission from me?
Nah like, I get that you're going to do you no matter what happens, but I need the room to air out my disagreeance with it when you open the floor for discussions over it.
If you want me to keep considering you my friend then yeah, I want you to stop disagreeing with me especially when I put in effort to explain why I make the decisions I do
otherwise, you just seem petty and jealous of me tbh lol. I am not going to lie, you are starting to come off as jealous of my happiness and (arguable) success at achieving my dreams and goals. enough success that so far im very happy and content with what ive accomplished
i mean ultimately if you dont stop, i will permanently start thinking of you as petty and jealous and a fake friend. True friends put effort into understanding each other, and supporting each other in being happy and following their dreams and goals. In my opinion, life is too short to not do so, and I am not even risking anything financially in following my personal dreams and goals lmfao. so playing the "concerned friend" doesnt really work here sweetie
Not at all, I want you to put effort into understanding me instead of trying to run over all my personal emotional needs, that i am successfully meeting, and trying to tell me what my wants and needs should be instead of what they are
You're acting as if you're "misunderstood" to invalidate other opinions on you, and now you're outright rebuking those who'd dare to carry such an opinion to make it easier to continue carrying your worldview.
It's a weak and flimsy worldview if you have to run away from people to preserve it.