The gospel thing was a hyperbole to make a larger point that if I was a different gender she would treat me entirely different.
I think she'd just say you're ugly less often.
Even that's a maybe though, she trashes dudes' looks too.
The gospel thing was a hyperbole to make a larger point that if I was a different gender she would treat me entirely different.
I think she'd just say you're ugly less often.
Even that's a maybe though, she trashes dudes' looks too.
You’ve interpreted everything as an attack an a threat like a scared animal, and can’t just talk about a subject objectively for once.
I wish people could step outside themselves just for a moment to talk abotu a concept, without looking through the narrow scope of their own defensiveness.
The gospel thing was a hyperbole to make a larger point that if I was a different gender she would treat me entirely different.
I think she'd just say you're ugly less often.
Even that's a maybe though, she trashes dude's looks too.
She says she’s not reading but, I got proof now that she is reading. Because she read the stuff about the hyperbole and piped up to defend herself about it.
Oldest trick in the book.
“I’m not listening.”
“You’re a virgin.”
“NO I’M NOT!”
Now you’re listening. Now that I have your attention...
YOUR MOMS NOT A VIRGIN
You’ve interpreted everything as an attack an a threat like a scared animal, and can’t just talk about a subject objectively for once.
I wish people could step outside themselves just for a moment to talk abotu a concept, without looking through the narrow scope of their own defensiveness.
Framing and giving her breathing room makes it easier for discussion to be a two-way street.
She's also surprisingly absorbent for information.
so TC, what would you consider it if ive been letting people say disrespectful things to me without speaking up and attempting to prove them wrong? and not only that but it feels good to not fight back and just be like, okay they are entitled to that opinion if they want to have it? Its like the drive in me to not be spoken to disrespectfully has disappeared almost overnight? If this isnt masochism what is it? A "cope"- cant you call literally any human behavior a cope of some sorts? I think you can do better than simply reducing it to a cope come on now
Looking back on my history, I used to be more this way in middle school where as in my childhood and age 14 on Ive had much more fight in me(not physically but mentally). so it seems in many ways Ive been regressing back to my middle school years especially, that was when I didnt wear makeup and was also much more passive. i am fatter though like from in my high school years lol except, my figure is actually nicer and more sexual and womanly than it used to be lol i was even more androgynous and fatter than now in high school except i wore makeup (like emo makeup lol and emo layered hair but blonde, it was so awkward, my high school years were probably the most awkward years a human teenage girl could experience lol) I bet im going to get doxxed someday and my yearbook pictures will show up somehow
so please TC explain what is going on with me psychologically that I would overnight lose the drive to fight back against percieved disrespectful comments, at the very least internally but usually outspoken?