there are gay people that you would not be able to tell from looking at them that they're gay
I mean exceptions exist within most things, but generally people are so sexually geared that they can't help but show aspects of it. The Biological Imperative is loud and distracting for most people in some form, no matter what form it appears in.
they don't flaunt it or show it, they just happen to be gay
Doesn't mean it isn't otherwise telegraphed passively.
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