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how to tell ur kid is gay (without stereotyping)


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lezbi-honest. not all people who are gay, "look" gay. 

 

not wearing a lot of makeup, or dressing more tom-boyish isn't as important of a detail than we think. it can be a sign, but- not always. 

 

heres some other cool signs 

 

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always drawing girls 

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posters on the wall of female celebrities, or a phone background. and always talking about a certain celebrity 

(gay celebrity crushes are really common, and a super common early sign ur kid is gay) 

 

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way too attached to that one specific friend who is a girl.... may come off as obsessed with her. 

may talk more about the girlfriends than guys, or not speak of guys at all. may appear to care more about the girls in their life, or one specific girl- spends more time talking to them, making efforts to be around them etc. 

may even say that dating boys isn't for them, that they don't understand what other girls are attracted to about boys, or complain about not getting along with their girl friends because they can't relate to them. 

 

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you may catch them smiling at their phone a certain way, only when texting a certain girl.

 

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there is a lot said in the way they look at someone as well. 

 

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their face may light up talking about them, or when they're with them. they just seem exceedingly happier or more at ease. 

or may only speak positively about them, may speak positively about them excessively, or reference them constantly. "xyz would love this..." "oh that reminds me of xyz" "one time, xyz said this thing." "when me and xyz were hanging out..." 

may also defend them, when you say you don't like them or something they do.  

 

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touchy feely with girls, makes any excuse to touch them. always touching them somehow

 

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cuddles with their girl friends

 

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has a subtle affinity for rainbows- but claims its not a gay thing. may claim to be an ally and speak passionately about lgbt rights. 

is close friends or in circles with people who are outwardly gay, or are members of lgbt clubs

 

follows a ton of gay people on social media, (youtube, tumblr, twitter, instagram). may even be a really big fan of them. 

like me and jeffree star, who's notorious for being androgynous and gay. lol. 

they may like them for their content or their personality, but it may be because they feel like they really identify with them. 

may even be mildly obsessed, like with the gay celebrities thing. 

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nervous cleaning/over organizing/protective, secretive 

 

everything is locked. no access allowed on their social media. you don't know their friends. 

 

and they always leave their room spotless. everything has its "place" 

 

or may nervously clean the house a lot 

 

it's just one way of dealing with the stress of hiding a really big secret. 

 

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does laundry or changes clothes as soon as they come home from hanging out with "mystery friend who just happens to be a girl you've never met" 

 

i used to do this because i'd come home smelling like perfume, and i never wore that perfume or owned that scent. i knew my mom would find it odd if it was on me. 

 

and trust me, she'd notice. 

 

they always come home smelling a bit like the person. 

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I don't see how people lack gaydar. 

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random great moods, mood spikes for seemingly no reason. 

 

i never whistle. when i got in a relationship with a girl i really liked, the next morning i came into the kitchen whistling- not really thinking about it. 

 

or other times i'll just be in a really good mood and happy acting, more so than usual. 

 

but whenever asked about it, there's never an explanation. 

 

the reason is, they're in love, or just fucked someone. 

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Wearing boys clothes and a mohawk
Sc is pretty boring.
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(without stereotyping) 

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There are some physical features that can give away estrogen/testosterone balances, and for males being a younger sibling raises the odds of homosexuality, otherwise like... just stop being in your own head and watch how people respond to things and the clues are all right there

Like I don't get it, is gaydar more of a bisexual thing or something? 

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last edit on 8/12/2019 10:56:30 PM
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The point of this thread is there are a lot of “straight” seeming people who are actually totally gay 

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there are gay people that you would not be able to tell from looking at them that they're gay 

they don't flaunt it or show it, they just happen to be gay 

alternatively you have straight faggots and masculine fags, life is funny like that

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