lol.... I just caught my dad cheating on my mom.
and I've got my mom cheating on my dad before.
and this isn't even the first time my dad has cheated on my mom. I remember when I was really little they fought over some woman... he went to New York with...and my mom found photos and yeah he wasn't supposed to be with a woman he was "doing it for business"
and it was a huge blow out fight my mom was screaming in the shower for some reason I don't know
but yeah that was years ago and I have confirmed they're not married anymore, they are on paper, but not in their minds.
I caught them talking about how they stayed married for financial reasons, documents, etc. and to keep up the illusion, for social reasons.
but like on the downlow they're not even into each other anymore. and it's *really* obvious to me their marriage has been dead for a very long time. a very long, long time.
they don't do things normal like married couples do, and never have. like, they don't take photos together. they sleep separate. drive separate cars everywhere even if we're both going to the same place. never, ever kiss, touch, hug, anything PDA not even remotely close. they don't talk. they don't do anything on birthdays or anniversaries. they don't do anything together, ever. they don't even communicate about basic things. very idnependent natured the way they both operate, separated from each other. not connected in any single way.
and they don't wear their weddings rings.
if it wasn't obvious enough, like I said I confirmed it by ease dropping and overhead *all of it*
how they don't want to live together anymore... etc.
and yeah my dad has been talking to this woman on the phone for years. years. and he says its "just a friend" but they talk every day for hourrsssss.
and I caught my mom at her place of work, another woman came up and kissed her right on the lips. I always knew my mom was gay she just gives off that vibe. and she talks about men like they are the scum of the earth. she engrained that in me from a young young age that men basically suck. men are stupid. men are this, men are that. don't trust men. men men men.
and she is super like "boss lady" attitude, she doesn't act like other women *at all* in any facet she's miss combat boots and hard hat. you know. it's just like, the way about her and everything, it's all just screaming, not straight. lol
but yeah when I was at her work, this woman that she is obviously dating, (they do everything together, tons and tons of photos together, trips together, all she talks about is this woman, and how great she is), she didn't know I was there that day. I showed up by surprised and didn't tell either of them I was coming obviously and, so yeah I was like walking in, and like she didn't see me coming in, because I was kind of tucked behind a corner. an di paused for a second to see how they would talk and what they'd say and how they'd interact- because I had a suspicion for a while this woman and her were more than just friends. and yeah low and behold she kissed her right on the mouth and BROUGHT HER LUNCH lmao and said, "hey love"
anyways, then right after she did that she looked up and saw me standing in the corner and looked *horrified* and then whispered in my moms ear something probably, "your daughter is here" or something I don know and then she walked off really quick
LOL
the thing is, I'm not even surprised.
it was all obvious but all I needed was more proof.
anyways, I just overheard my dad talking on the phone with this woman, and he accidentally said, "love you honey" as he was saying good bye- probably out of habit. forgetting that I was literally right in the other room.
and then he came in my room and saw I was wearing headphones and smiled and just walked out. but I heard it anyways. the headphones had nothing playing.
ya'll, all this lying is causing me fucking anxiety why can't you just tell the truth and be honest. I would of really preferred that
