"At best I belittle what you are inside" pretty much concedes the point. You're not merely giving neutral feedback; you're explicitly judging and belittling my character, calling me weak and spoiled, and treating disagreement with you as a defect in me. "Reparations" is another distortion because I'm not asking you for compensation, I'm explaining why your behavior gives me reason not to trust you. Sincerity doesn't make your judgments objective or exempt them from criticism.
Then you end by advocating beating children, which fits the broader pattern I've been criticizing: when people challenge your reasoning or behave contrary to your expectations, you repeatedly appeal to punishment, humiliation, domination, and suffering rather than actually addressing the criticism. I can't know your private motivations, but your arguments consistently prioritize control, status, judgment, and inflicting misery over offering any productive way forward. Calling that "genuine" doesn't make the reasoning sound or make the framework constructive.