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Insulting someone based on their appearance gives me the willies and does come back to bite people in some way shape or form. Right off the bat it demotes inner beauty. Bit off topic, but I reckon Med is what is called a young soul, and if reincarnation is real, this is her first rodeo, and there's many more lives filled with lessons to live though. 

Nathan has an interesting appearance in those images. Given the eye shadow and the image filtered as dot matrix, he successfully pulled off a comic book Joker look. which was probably the point. Very pointy chin and jaw structure long nose and and forehead triangular in appearance are indicators that Nate naturally looks psychologically mad.

Just burned some fossil fuel with a massive swig of some of that fresh lake water and massive electricity bill and chaos and destruction and expensive RAM and GPU's that make people sad, so Mr. Supercomputer can do a facial reading and fortune telling on Nate's facial features. I agree with some of that.

All that aside I know what Nate is trying to tell you. 

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As for TMJ. I had that. Your jaw is misaligned, Hurts when you chew. Mine lasted a couple of months. Thought it was gonna be for life.  

Eventually I decided to rehab my jaw myself and started applying tension and just clench my jaws gradually applying more bite force through the pain. You'll eventually hear and feel the cracking. You'll adapt to the pain and just keep doing that, and it'll heal sooner than later. 

It's the same thing if someone gets fucked up and has to learn how to walk again. The exercise is painful, but the practice opens boundaries that become comfortable. Pain goes away and everything is back to normal. 

Spatial said:

 

 No my friend let it be known that Turncoat said I was ugly first. I was reacting to people on Facebook and he feels defensive for the Uglies. He first mistook me for some guy “gooning” to hentai.  I’m not calling him ugly I said he wants to stand up for the Ugly People.

I really genuinely feel you have a chip on your shoulder Turncoat and actively seek to make others miserable. You were not born easygoing.

I don’t need to justify myself but if I’m alone now it’s actively by choice.

Turnblat said: 

You really felt I was addressing you when I said people are ugly huh

Despite feeling ugly myself, no not really. My being ugly and my giving advice about how you can handle your mundane-ness over an unrealistic standard likely set by either porn or Hollywood are two different concerns. 

If someone ugly like me can end up with people, then surely you can too. Correct your standards down to something closer to your own appearance. 

I am alone by choice. Insisting I need to be with someone is like someone disrespecting your gender. Lay off.

 The first thing you said in the OP was...

Stuffs said: 

I tried looking at suggested accounts on Facebook. I’m concerned because I think most people are “ugly”. One or two exceptional attractive people and a sea of ugly. I’m concerned I’m single and —- I know what I like certain brand of preppy maybe in the South idk. Not necessarily preppy clothes but athletic. And then there’s always the danger that I find someone based on looks and it’s not really what I want. I’m scared I don’t even know what I want anymore and that’s not good.

 

 So you technically are aware of what Nathan is "trying" to say, it's just the way he put it makes you see it as something else. 

In 2026 despite the modern dating climate, just about any single woman is single by choice.

A lot of women seek out 0.01% of men, being tall rich handsome, and they'll sleep with 30% of men ( Yes women sleep with the men who get laid, being the same men who bang a lot of other women ) and that 30% of men almost never settle. 

The remaining 70% of men don't get attention from women. They have to meet women in person and when she gets to know him she might like him for other reasons. The 70% of men, all they really have to do is work out and they can become part of the 30%, so if a woman gets one of these, she can put him on his toes and transform him. Men can do anything to make his woman happy. Just make a no gym, no poon rule.

You already address the danger of wanting someone but they're not what you really want.

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In any case, it seems like you're on a better path, giving chance to what'll make you happy. It's just you don't have anyone on your radar.   

I want to be me in 2017 or close second 2020. I’m working to getting “back there”

Oh oh oh ! Or you can eat bon bons all day on the sofa and do tummy crunches so your hips and thighs get big !

Stuffs said: 

I am alone by choice. Insisting I need to be with someone is like someone disrespecting your gender. Lay off.

You are 'alone by choice' because by your own admission  everyone  most people* look ugly to you. The OP even has you mentioning how you expect to end up with someone, which makes 'alone by choice' seem somewhat contradictory to me. 

In general when the majority of people seem ugly, it's a question of how you perceive them moreso than a factual score. 

Turncoat said: 

Stuffs said: 

I am alone by choice. Insisting I need to be with someone is like someone disrespecting your gender. Lay off.

You are 'alone by choice' because by your own admission  everyone  most people* look ugly to you. 

The OP even has you mentioning how you expect to end up with someone, which makes 'alone by choice' seem somewhat contradictory to me. 

 She's a woman Nate. What they say and what they mean are 2 different things. 

Spatial Mind said: 

Oh oh oh ! Or you can eat bon bons all day on the sofa and do tummy crunches so your hips and thighs get big !

 That was my dad’s derogatory expression to eat bon bons all day. Old expression. I’m keeping close to the vest what I’m doing now.