Emotions are intuitive and serve as indicators. If something is cringy, avoid it instead of filling up your head with garbage.
If I did that I'd never get out of bed.
I'd say it's not an indicator when enough times I've been made to do the cringy thing and then later turned out to be a fan. This is more like some sort of... post-hipster urgency that gets in the way of trying new things.
Well self experience is the only experience. Then you're wiser.
Tolerance. It's good when beneficial, but increase it for something like cringe will mean you're willing to fill your head with more shit than it already has for the sake of enjoyment. You can say evil loves tolerance, because it allows controversy.
Is... controversy a bad thing inherently?
I'd assume a world without it would be worse overall.
Without it we wouldn't learn or know for sure, so there is some good that comes out of it.
It's existence has to do with free will. Comes to a point where tolerance enables crisis and discomfort, distrust, distraction, unhappiness. An extreme case would be tolerating a bully, or some kind of field blocking your blessings.
In jail the rat is frowned upon. Or even in real life, it's considered taboo to rat out someone who did you wrong. That only serves those who will fuck you up. People that go by that code only respect people who take matters into their own hands and does something considerably dark, to handle a nuisance. Turning to the dark side is prone to landing one in jail too.
Put out an ad to be a personal tour guide for LGBTQ people.....
I'd be better off being an LGBTQ counselor of some sort if I'm going that route, or something related to paraphilias. I've already been helpful in those ways for free at least.
If you have the means and resources to do it, then do it. If not then make the resources, finish up whatever you need to do and get an office.
So you see Nathan. All you need is a piece of mind.
Rather than a whole one? 😏
Yes.
I once worked in this building and down the hall there was a guy who had a dying photography business. He converted his office into a gallery of photos in frames and sold them for a high price as though he were selling paintings.
He would have themed events and it was nothing. Space, the ocean, science fiction.
He then did a gay event where his photography was geared toward queer people. Boom
The place was so loaded, there was a large crowd of gay people mingling and having a lovely time in the front of the building while his gallery was loaded to the brim. I said large crowd and they were chirping like birds. Not only does the LGBTQ show up, but they show off by spending money.
So you're... actually arguing in favor of the LGBTQ as a representation of financial autonomy, growth, and success?
Why wouldn't this apply equally to straight people? They both like art, and photography's a fine form of it.
Because the LGBTQ likes events and venues that exposes them openly. Straight people get this every single day as we are the majority.
Gay Parade won't be as big as Caribana or Mardi-gras, because a majority isn't gay, but they are fairly large with a more limited supply of queer folks.
Some estimates suggest 3% of the population is queer, other suggestions are 1 in 10 americans identify.
The LGBTQ are generally invisible to one another. Whatever the event entails, you make it about the LGBTQ, and they're not coming out for the event itself, they're coming out to group up and meet people. In the process they'll show they're not broke and invest and buy things cause it will enhance their appearance to potential connections. Sure a gay person can be rejected by another gay person, but it won't be over "sorry I'm straight".
Trust me it works. Also, gay men fuck more than any other type of human being on the face of the Earth, as men aren't as selective as women, and they are up to fucking. Sexual energy is linked to financial energy, I kid you not. You won't believe it, but fucking around too much can make a person poor. Someone who strokes all day isn't getting anything done, while refraining from sex or masturbation, a person can have the energy, or lifeforce if you will, do be more productive for a higher reward. Basically earning the reward and not just taking it is key. The LGBTQ want to see one another, and those who have the funds to go out are the ones who have careers and show up.
If you're a tour guide for the LGBTQ, you'll get gay travellers from around the world who've been places and are generally wealthy.
Talk to an LLM about "Why are LGBTQ businesses so good". I personally never had to ask it, but as I just did, it's saying the same thing. I know a guy who is so gay, he never had to come out of the closet, cause he sounds gay. He had the gay accent since he was a child. He's one of those people you'll know he's gay in a second. His side hustles are most effective and he's making some good loot, and meeting a lot of people. Probably getting tons of dick in the process.
Do something or else you'll get bored and go crazy.
Sleep, get up drink some room temperature water in the morning and go on a walk. Take a cold shower if you're procrastinating. Use Ai to build your business. Gemini is really fucking good. Grok is good, and if you need websites or code or applications, Claude and Claude-Code. Take advantage of whatever government programs you can use to get yourself out of the gutter. You have a caseworker, let them know what you're trying to do for additional assistance. It takes money, and you must make it in the process. It's the process that's important to you, not the money. You already have the fun and games. What do you want now ? PlayStation ? No. You're cringing and cannot really enjoy something without exchanging effort. Do your darndest to be a servant to your community, and they will see you, they will respect you, they will fuck you. You will be more famous, You will be loved and revisited. You will make friends and they know this is what you do to survive so you must get paid. You will find love and appreciation. You'll be less of an asshole. Less need to be the devil's advocate when someones upbeat about something. Build a resume and put your face and contact on Linkedin. Stop hiding, no one is after you. If you have a criminal record get a pardon.
If I were gay I might not be famous, but I would be more famous than most gays among gays.
Anyway. This is what you need to do, or something like this. Use whatever you have. Make connections, and they will also invite you out and you'll be able to afford it. You'll probably end up doing plays and receiving roses again. Small theatre. Another thing my gay friend does. He sings. been there with his family and like 100 people came to listen to him sing for 2 hours or so.
The emotions are intuitive, and what I'm telling you doesn't sound cringe does it ? If you want to tolerate cringe you'll have to become it, then you will become it. One cannot serve 2 masters no matter who those masters are.