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I'm always a little fascinated by people like that who seem to never mature and develop, at least in terms of maintaining their relationships. This is such a basic human thing, and surely it must pain him that he's always in conflict with everyone and not welcome at gatherings. He likely blames everyone but himself for this, but isn't that just another symptom of the greater problem at work? A lot of narcissism in being unable to see others' pov, along with existing in a fantasy world where they're perfect & everyone else is the arsehole.

But something must have derailed him very early on? Do you know of anything in his history that screwed his chances of stability? Abuse and/or mental illness?

Elli said: 

I'm always a little fascinated by people like that who seem to never mature and develop, at least in terms of maintaining their relationships. This is such a basic human thing, and surely it must pain him that he's always in conflict with everyone and not welcome at gatherings. He likely blames everyone but himself for this, but isn't that just another symptom of the greater problem at work? A lot of narcissism in being unable to see others' pov, along with existing in a fantasy world where they're perfect & everyone else is the arsehole.

But something must have derailed him very early on? Do you know of anything in his history that screwed his chances of stability? Abuse and/or mental illness?

 I'm not sure exactly what it was I met him when I was 13. I never liked him at first cause he was riding a projector trolly through the lanes in English class, then my best friend connected us and we had good times.

If anything I might blame his Mother. Regardless if he was right or wrong she would defend him against anyone. That's willing to be in the wrong for argument sake. 

The middle Brother was molested and is now gay. He's successful.

The youngest Brother is a "G" and is also successful.

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In my case. My older Brother. We don't talk. He destroyed our family. 

I once wrote a piece about myself growing up, I wish I can find that thread it's was pretty comedic, yet serious and I highlighted a part of my childhood where I might have created my Brother's hatred toward me when I was 2 years old. 

Some guy wrote a vlog about SC and he showed a part of that thread, and I had to laugh cause I was TWO ! But basically I was strapped to those baby rocker chairs and we had these toys. I wanted the laser gun, and I got it, then I wanted the firetruck in my Brothers hand, and I got it, but in exchange I'd lose the laser gun. I remember it, we actually have pictures of it, and I think it programmed my older Brother to resent me for life. It might not be that, but whatever has my older Brother the way he is toward me, was certainly embedded from him since young. Could simply be that he never handled jealousy too well. 

My sister has always held similar resentments against me. She says I was the golden child and got preferential treatment which is not how I saw things at all. She does that with everything though - lives in a self created fantasy world where she's always right and feels justified in her rotten behaviour. I've come to a place of acceptance lately with people like this. They will never change, they will never see or acknowledge my point and I'm no longer trying. For me, that is the only way I can be at peace with them. They are a lost cause. I don't have your stamina when it comes to continuing to try and shine the light of reason into their dark worlds.

And who am I to say my pov is the right and correct one anyway? I try to practice a live & let live attitude while completely disengaging. 

My patience does expire with people Elli. It's probably an age thing now. 

It's probably a good thing that the one who disappointed me the most did it, as it makes letting go of other weights easier. 

Things get peaceful, but then theres peace without satisfaction which seems to be a theme for me these days.

Kindness is one of the many faculties monkeys use to hold together their troops. We live in a different world than monkeys. A world of alienation and confusion. And it never pays to be too kind among monkeys and not in this world of alienation and betrayal especially.

When someone throws you a bone, take the bone. God will send them another and maybe you can learn to find your own bones in time.

If you want to form connections and peace amidst the chaos, a complex web of tenderness and cruelty is necessary. Fear and love. Respect and rejection. To form unity requires both.

Our world is only getting more cruel. Kindness alone will never be enough to win against the powers at play.

Selfishness is a virtue. Altruists are never motivated by anything other than it, the outside appearance is just different. To give without expectation of reward is against design. A system cannot survive with meaningless loss of resource from one to another.

When it comes to relationships with women, I find that to be true. If you want to be her friend, be Mr. Nice Guy, though its rarely ever the case where a guy seeks friendship from a women.

No creation without chaos is the way with us and its how families are made.

Yes but not just women. You must confess and take the whip at Church and War so that the Order continues. Sharpen sword against sword makes it stronger. It's only play which is important for conditions of creativity.

Sometimes violence is justified and it comes into play for a greater good. I think in the US, good is scoring a glorious win, which doesn't happen all that often.

Israel Hamas war has ceased. We look at some headlines by the corrupt mainstream media and they're all like...The Israel Hamas war ended, but..... Then it's always something for the sake of giving no credit to, him. 

They've lost their grip on the majority in the US. I think in a generation or maybe by the time the gen alphas are seniors, the die hard woke zombies will be extinct and there'll be some new dark issues on a lesser extent.