He called himself Lycan back then.
That is the first SC marriage.
I lost someone close to me last February, I unexpectedly mourned several times a day for 2 weeks. Now it's not bad at all.
You'll go through something similar when he's gone, probably much worse cause you were a bit, short fused if I recall correctly.
Whatever the case, I hope his death is painless. Pain is the only scary thing about dying. Some says it's painless.
Turncoat came out as a Transexual and insists he's a woman.
God has transformed my mind. I really didn’t think I could change. It wasn’t instantaneous of course. It was a gradual process of refinement through fire. I’ve been humbled these last four years especially, as we navigated through his cancer journey. We’ve both been humbled.
Amazing.
Transformation is good as long as it's for the better.
I'm thinking, since you and him achieved such a bond, it's as though your tribulations kinda forced you closer to God, as though God wants your connection to carry on.
Anticipatory grief is real. The last few weeks have been like a hellish emotional awakening. I’ve always had problems with dissociation and attachment. Even past the changes in me. I was beginning to fear I wouldn’t be able to connect to the depth of my pain. It’s strange to say how relieved I am that it’s there. I feel it more deeply than I’ve ever felt anything in my whole life. It’s agonizing but at least it’s real and I can process it sober and with my eyes wide open.
When distressed I'd rather avoid any form of pain or mourning, but as I mentioned earlier, I unexpectedly broke.
You will for sure connect to the depth of your pain, because of what it actually is, which is basically an ego death, or to be more descriptive a forced transformation of the ego. You'll have no choice but to change and you've become accustomed to him being in your life.
It's interesting how you've found some type of relief in your suffering. That's a high degree of knowledge/wisdom right there.
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As for Turncoat—- what can I say? The spirit of confusion devours many these days.
I added the Turncoat gossip to probably amuse you, but you got me nodding along.
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I grew up Roman Catholic but I don't follow the religion. I see there's a lot wrong with it.
There's this one song we used to sing in Church though, sounds like crossing over, or how we'll be after life on Earth.
( Excuse the imagery in this video since I don't believe Jesus was white )
My son yahshua “jesus” is brown