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Spatial Mind said: 

Delora said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

 Just wanted to speculate on the rate at which you replaced Noah.

From what I've gathered, when a woman is ready to leave her partner, she will already have the next relationship lined up ready to roll. 

More often women monkey branch from one relationship to the next. Now I'm not saying Delora monkey branched (yes I am) but there doesn't seem to be any downtime since the new guy came in so fast. Plus he already has a nickname for Delora and he charmed her with the ukulele.

Yes the new guy is all that, and studies suggest women take more time to fall for someone. Some rumors say 2 weeks, while research says 6 months. With that i reckon the new guy was in the picture long enough to steal Noah's wife.

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If he's a native, then he eats pork ! And Delora is a Jew ! And he probably is a native cause he plays the ukulele ! In Hawaii ! in the beautiful sunset ! While Noah is around there somewhere eating BBQ pork under the stars with his mistress and no one is divorced ! And these people are having sex with each other ! 

 Br cheated on me. I love how he had other women during our marriage. 

That was a while ago. (Actually he was doing it recently now, he has another mistress. He has been doing it for years. This time he got on a plane to be with her. )

Women have a shorter biological clock than men so we can't wait around for bullshit 

Yeah

I signed divorce papers already. 

Yes yes.

Also you don't know how long it has been since I moved on, not how long "quickly" is. You are filling in the gaps to fuel an assumption. You do not know enough about the situation. 

You said it was faster than you can snap your fingers. Doesn't matter if it was yesterday or months ago. 

It's a figure of speech, but you started talking about weeks months ect and trying to create an entire timeframe and a narrative based on it. Yeah I'm faster than I could snap my fingers when I realized the nightmare I'm in. 

Also I know a lot about the situation, I just never thought you'd ditch him though. 

This man cheated on me when I was loyal, hit me while I was pregnant, was physically abusive, rarely had a job and when he did he spent it all on weed and restaurants for himself - and then stole my debit card for myself 

Divorce would be best then. 

Yeah we already signed the papers just recently.

Also Noah didn't keep kosher either, and I was still keeping kosher then, so why would that be a factor now just because it's somebody else?

BBQ swine on rice. Or maybe.... Some type of Wild boar'n Mango, with veggies Hawaiian super dish 

I feel like this has nothing to do with pork. I don't eat pork. Quit being a hypocrite about BR.

I have to divorce because he's going to run off and get a job that takes half my check and he isn't even supporting me or being married to me, 

I am so sick of being abused and being blamed after putting up with so much shit 

I tried to be a "good girl" by the standards of heartless people with no empathy and an ideology that they think is all there is to the world- 

But I have a disabled little brother and I need to have peace for myself so I can be there for others. 

Yes. 

Ok glad you understand that.)

So.many assumptions 

Guesses. You do live in a tropical island which for some would be a romantic setting.

Yeah well, this isn't the movie you have in your mind. Life isn't black and white. 

In fact Marvin isn't even Hawaiian 

Maaaarvin. A negroid that plays the ukulele ? No, too rare.

Some tanned Asian/native looking guy. 

Marvin/gargil 

I like how you are being this ignorant. That's amazing. I am amazed. Wow. Yeah because Asian, black, and Hawaiian are the only races that exist. Especially in the Pacific. Also why the fuck are you calling my boyfriend a slur? 

He doesn't even live in Hawaii 

Sucks when you have to pay all kinds of money just to see one another for a little while. 

You didn't seem to feel that way when be and I were long distance.

I really thought you and I were friends, but I guess you don't feel the same- the difficult times seem to expose who really cares and who doesn't the most. 

 Why would this be a difficult time ? You've moved on and from the looks of it you're glad about it.

Moving on is difficult. Everyone deals with things differently.

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I'm just speculating on the studies that revolve around female nature. Usually when they leave a relationship they have another one lined up already. From what you wrote you replaced Noah faster than you can snap your fingers. That implies no downtime.

I'm not saying weather this is a good or bad thing. Personally I don't see the benefit to waiting around and being single at the end of a relationship while there's someone else to fill the void. 

OK then it's not "female" nature it's human nature in general. 

Unless you are saying you are feminine. Not that that's a bad thing.

That and crispy hawaiian pork, which is yummy, and maybe Marvin likes a slice of ham with his eggs. Who knows.  

 Idk maybe BR would because he eats all that shit and always has but you never said anything about THAT did you?

Spatial Mind said: 

Yes the new guy is all that, and studies suggest women take more time to fall for someone. Some rumors say 2 weeks, while research says 6 months. With that i reckon the new guy was in the picture long enough to steal Noah's wife.

Wait are you accusing her of having cheated on him? 

Delora said: 

Spatial Mind said: 

Delora said: 

 Br cheated on me. I love how he had other women during our marriage. 

That was a while ago. (Actually he was doing it recently now, he has another mistress. He has been doing it for years. This time he got on a plane to be with her. )

Women have a shorter biological clock than men so we can't wait around for bullshit 

Yeah

I signed divorce papers already. 

Yes yes.

Also you don't know how long it has been since I moved on, not how long "quickly" is. You are filling in the gaps to fuel an assumption. You do not know enough about the situation. 

You said it was faster than you can snap your fingers. Doesn't matter if it was yesterday or months ago. 

It's a figure of speech, but you started talking about weeks months ect and trying to create an entire timeframe and a narrative based on it. Yeah I'm faster than I could snap my fingers when I realized the nightmare I'm in. 

Well I hope you never just jumped into something right away without testing the waters a little bit.

Also I know a lot about the situation, I just never thought you'd ditch him though. 

This man cheated on me when I was loyal, hit me while I was pregnant, was physically abusive, rarely had a job and when he did he spent it all on weed and restaurants for himself - and then stole my debit card for myself 

Divorce would be best then. 

Yeah we already signed the papers just recently.

Also Noah didn't keep kosher either, and I was still keeping kosher then, so why would that be a factor now just because it's somebody else?

I wasn't aware Noah really ate the forbidden swine. I'm not that invested in what anyone eats really, but I thought it was funny to paint those pictures.

BBQ swine on rice. Or maybe.... Some type of Wild boar'n Mango, with veggies Hawaiian super dish 

I feel like this has nothing to do with pork. I don't eat pork. Quit being a hypocrite about BR.

I have to divorce because he's going to run off and get a job that takes half my check and he isn't even supporting me or being married to me, 

I am so sick of being abused and being blamed after putting up with so much shit 

I tried to be a "good girl" by the standards of heartless people with no empathy and an ideology that they think is all there is to the world- 

But I have a disabled little brother and I need to have peace for myself so I can be there for others. 

Yes. 

Ok glad you understand that.)

So.many assumptions 

Assumptions maybe right or wrong, but I don't think they're terrible thoughts to think.

Guesses. You do live in a tropical island which for some would be a romantic setting.

Yeah well, this isn't the movie you have in your mind. Life isn't black and white. 

In fact Marvin isn't even Hawaiian 

Maaaarvin. A negroid that plays the ukulele ? No, too rare.

Some tanned Asian/native looking guy. 

Marvin/gargil 

I like how you are being this ignorant. That's amazing. I am amazed. Wow. Yeah because Asian, black, and Hawaiian are the only races that exist. Especially in the Pacific. Also why the fuck are you calling my boyfriend a slur? 

Asian/native isn't a slurr...

I did say he couldn't be a negroid because he plays the ukulele and that's rare, however.... You're claiming I made a slur, so I'm guessing Marvin is a black guy who plays tge ukulele and doesn't live in Hawaii. Maybe he's on a  island since he catches crabs.

I said negroid because it's fun and a real word.

Or I can say negro, which is a spanish word meaning black. 

He doesn't even live in Hawaii 

Sucks when you have to pay all kinds of money just to see one another for a little while. 

You didn't seem to feel that way when be and I were long distance.

I've always said long distance relationships suck, and I'm sure I said that to everyone here who had one, including you.

I really thought you and I were friends, but I guess you don't feel the same- the difficult times seem to expose who really cares and who doesn't the most. 

 Why would this be a difficult time ? You've moved on and from the looks of it you're glad about it.

Moving on is difficult. Everyone deals with things differently.

I went back and read your reply to Tryptamine and I saw what you said Noah did, and I see what you mean.

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I'm just speculating on the studies that revolve around female nature. Usually when they leave a relationship they have another one lined up already. From what you wrote you replaced Noah faster than you can snap your fingers. That implies no downtime.

I'm not saying weather this is a good or bad thing. Personally I don't see the benefit to waiting around and being single at the end of a relationship while there's someone else to fill the void. 

OK then it's not "female" nature it's human nature in general. 

Unless you are saying you are feminine. Not that that's a bad thing.

Human female nature. 

When we look into our instincts it appears cold, where men are brutish and women are some type of prize. The prize, that being the female has survival instincts that are different. In the wild she's a sitting duck, so she'll do what she can to survive, that includes finding a solid mate. 

As for me I'm not feminine, though I'm not gonna like, with age the emotions get stronger. By time I'm in my 60's things will probably make me cry like Jordan Peterson.

That and crispy hawaiian pork, which is yummy, and maybe Marvin likes a slice of ham with his eggs. Who knows.  

 Idk maybe BR would because he eats all that shit and always has but you never said anything about THAT did you?

 I wouldn't know if Noah ate the animal with a split hoof. But I know now.

Was gone for several months, but before something happened where you stabbed him with a pen or something. For a guy who beats his wife, it's odd he never did it that time.

A time after Noah demanded the poon in frustration claiming how you owe it to him. He was also venting about your admirations and fetishes or anything to do with you and rats. Anything to do with tact went out the window, he wanted what he wanted from you right away. The badass who says and does without thinking that woman fall for came out.

Last I remember you were posting about being in heat for Noah. I've seen that type of thing many times where at the end of a relationship, one member would either lovebomb or say what they think their partner wants to hear, and do it publicly.

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Noah needs mental rehabilitation. He's addicted to consumables and other forms of stimulation and it made him into a kleptomaniac hippy who stole from his wife probably to support his addictions and it destroyed him and his marriage. 

Still both of you must learn from one another's complaints about each other in preparation for your new relationships.

Personally I wanted to see it work out.

Spatial Mind said: 

Was gone for several months, but before something happened where you stabbed him with a pen or something. For a guy who beats his wife, it's odd he never did it that time. (He was choking me and I wanted to breathe and got desperate and then had a mental breakdown but I didn't want him to go to jail so I didn't say anything)

A time after Noah demanded the poon in frustration claiming how you owe it to him. He was also venting about your admirations and fetishes or anything to do with you and rats. Anything to do with tact went out the window, he wanted what he wanted from you right away. The badass who says and does without thinking that woman fall for came out. (It looks like you are describing him raping me as a good thing but it's hard to make out)

Last I remember you were posting about being in heat for Noah. I've seen that type of thing many times where at the end of a relationship, one member would either lovebomb or say what they think their partner wants to hear, and do it publicly. (I genuinely did love him)

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Noah needs mental rehabilitation. He's addicted to consumables and other forms of stimulation and it made him into a kleptomaniac hippy who stole from his wife probably to support his addictions and it destroyed him and his marriage.  (Yes)

Still both of you must learn from one another's complaints about each other in preparation for your new relationships.

Personally I wanted to see it work out. (Honestly, me too.)

I'm telling you, if it was BR saying he left you he'd still be pushing to defend the man he projects his values onto, rather than the person who exists in the world. 

Well I'm happy you found someone who actually respects you, and hopefully he finds someone who'll be there for his needs as well so you both move on. 

Turncoat said: 

I'm telling you, if it was BR saying he left you he'd still be pushing to defend the man he projects his values onto, rather than the person who exists in the world. 

Well I'm happy you found someone who actually respects you, and hopefully he finds someone who'll be there for his needs as well so you both move on. 

 Thank you. I feel like he needs therapy to figure out why he hits people and does other crazy shit even when realistically unprovoked 

The girl he left me for Already broke up with him 

This entire situation hurts him more than me 

Which seems like I'm trying to slam him by saying (not that I don't want to slam him he deserves it) 

But I genuinely mean that... 

And I'm actually not happy about that because realistically I still worry about him and I actually weirdly for some reason do hope he has some good change in his life and in himself? Maybe this break up will be good for him I hope it is

https://youtu.be/JV_X4AdRBwU?si=Hzkp795-kt3zNEtf.

Ok back to being a bitch about it

I am not trying to be the bigger person here or whatever I think "be the bigger person" is fucking stupid for society feel entitled to people being like that 

Society doesn't defend people a lot of the time then turns around and cries when people defend themselves it's such bullshit 

Good on them if they want to be the bigger person or whatever 

Nobody has to

And it isn't actually always healthy in my opinion 

Suck his dick and forgive him. Our Lord Jesus Christ told us to forgive people.