For real are you roleplaying a caveman or something?
Nothing wrong with discipline.
As for CS. The nicer a guy is to her, the more she'll push him away. That's how her brain works.
From the time Trypt offered to join her in her struggles, she already cracked and started attacking him. So he goes to join her and she went mental and set strict boundaries. Had a bad episode. Tryptamine was too nice.
I'm not saying it's a good thing, but the guy who treats Quintasia like dirt can keep her longer than Mr. Nice guy.
Finally. Yes it's more important for a guy to be respected by his woman. A woman who does things behind his back is much worse than the alternative.
Do you actually believe this?
By all accounts that person is not right in the head. Nice, rude, they are not stable enough to maintain any sort of relationship.
Of course I do. Some damaged people are actually like that. CS is no acception in these kind of cases.
- Barrel was nice to her, she'd then humiliate him then eventually ditch.
- Chapo was nice to her, but then ended up choking her out ( She asked him to do that in all fairness ) From what I gather Chapo like to make love instead of hard fucking. Maybe he was too mushy for her. Chapo could have kept her cause she'd be homeless without him, but eventually he got tired and ditched. He also moved to CA and was going to live there, which was a mistake.
- Jim. He'd beat her and they were engaged. Made porn of them and posted it, She wouldn't have said yes to any guy who treated her better no matter how much she love bombed them. Jim robbed her stank and knocked her up. CS was eventually deported from Turkey when Delora called her family and I guess they got a US embassy involved in her overstay.
Only with Jim did she not have 1 foot out of the door.
Last month or so I diagnosed CS as an Avoidant Dismissive Personality, and it was accurate.
Tryptamine's further mistakes was not being the dominant one in the house.
Now I know this sounds barbaric, but it's true. Nice guys makes her pussy dry and she'll always have one foot out the door whenever she has someone willing to work on the relationship experience with her.