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Cuckoo said: 

People with 10,000 subs and even more view make some okay money. Just need to post daily

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BohemianRhapsody said: 

This rant has been a long time coming, and honestly, I can't keep quiet about it anymore. Delora, there are some things you need to hear, and I’m done sugarcoating it.

I don't think any of this will reach her, and it might serve to grant her sympathizers. 

I understand doing it for you, but this level of passion has me think you'll fall right back into the cycle once you end up giving in again. It reads to me as trying to say something so bad that she'll leave, rather than you actually having the courage to do it yourself, and you could basically say anything to her without her leaving if she doesn't think she has a shot with anyone else via her lack of pride in this area. 

I suspect you two will stay together, because these moments of passion from you never last. The same energy you're using to rebuke her is the energy you use to not have to listen to your peers while burying shit. Past a point it will stop being about how much you've endured and become more about how she's the victim, especially when you start using words like 'retard'. Again I get that the style of language is more for you, it is your attempt to distance yourself verbally, but when you hit that endpoint and feel like a jerk this will be what keeps you two together. 

She's one good cry sesh (with some bleach) and one bizarre makeup sex away from everything being back to square one. 

First off, let’s talk about your hentai addiction. Seriously? Of all the things to get hooked on, you chose hentai? It’s not just embarrassing—it’s downright pathetic. You spend hours indulging in the weirdest, most outlandish fantasies, getting lost in a world of animated characters that have zero basis in reality. It’s one thing to enjoy a bit of fantasy, but you’ve taken it to a whole new level of obsession. It’s unhealthy, and it’s honestly disturbing. While most people are out there living their lives, you’re glued to your screen, getting off to cartoons. How did it come to this?

And then there’s your undying love for Pokémon. I get it—everyone has a bit of nostalgia for their childhood, but come on, you’re 25 years old, and you’re still into Pokémon like it’s the best thing ever. There’s a fine line between enjoying something from your past and clinging to it like it’s your entire identity. You’re not 10 anymore, so maybe it’s time to grow up a little and find some new interests that actually match your age. It’s one thing to have fond memories, but it’s another to act like you’re still living in them. 

And then there’s your My Little Pony obsession. I don’t even know where to start with this one. Of all the things to get into, you choose a show meant for little kids, and you’re actually proud of it? It’s one thing to enjoy something harmless, but you’ve taken it to a level that’s just embarrassing. Collecting pony figurines, watching episodes on repeat, and even engaging with the Brony community—it's like you’re completely disconnected from reality. It’s cringey beyond belief, and instead of growing out of it, you’re doubling down. How did a grown adult end up idolizing a show about pastel-colored ponies? It’s sad to watch, and even sadder that you don’t seem to see how weird it is.

Let’s not forget the furry thing. Out of all the interests you could have chosen, you pick the one that’s all about dressing up as anthropomorphic animals and indulging in some of the most bizarre and off-putting fantasies out there? It’s like you’ve completely given up on any sense of normalcy. The internet is full of weird stuff, but furries take it to a whole new level. It’s embarrassing, and yet you seem totally fine with being a part of it.

And then there’s your 4chan addiction. 4chan was once a place where you could find edgy, unfiltered content with a bit of wit. But now, it’s been overrun by the same kind of degeneracy you seem to love so much. It’s no surprise that you’ve found a home there, considering the state of that place. What was once a hub for clever trolling and dark humor is now a breeding ground for the exact kind of mindless crap you’re into. It’s sad to see how far 4chan has fallen, and even sadder to see you still clinging to it like it’s something worth being proud of.

And don’t even get me started on the weeb stuff. Your obsession with anime and Japanese culture has gone way beyond normal fandom. You’ve let it consume your life to the point where it’s all you seem to care about. Collecting figurines, obsessing over waifus, and spending your time in online communities that are just as deep into it as you are—it’s like you’ve given up on reality in favor of living in some fantasy world where you’re the main character in a badly animated series. It’s cringey, and it’s sad to watch.

And what’s up with those weird science experiments you’re always talking about? “Rodentology”? Really? You’re spending your time studying rats like it’s going to make a difference in the world. Or what about “pomology”? You’re seriously dedicating time to studying fruit? As if the world’s greatest minds are just dying to know all about different types of bananas. It’s like you’ve gone out of your way to pick the most pointless, ridiculous “special interests” possible. You’re diving deep into the most niche and irrelevant topics, pretending like it’s some big intellectual pursuit when really, it’s just another way to avoid facing reality.

The worst part is that you try to hide that you’re a gigantic nerd, like it’s some kind of deep, dark secret. Newsflash—everyone already knows. You’re not fooling anyone with this act. You think you’re being subtle, but it’s painfully obvious. Whether it’s your obsession with anime, your endless Pokémon obsession, or your constant lurking on 4chan, it’s clear as day that you’re a huge nerd. And instead of owning it, you try to keep it under wraps, like you’re ashamed or something. If you’re going to be this deeply into nerd culture, at least have the guts to admit it. If this is what autism looks like there needs to be a cure.

Honestly, it’s just sad. You’re letting all these cringey, immature obsessions control your life. Instead of being upfront about your interests, you try to play it off like you’re something you’re not by trying to act normal. But everyone can see through the facade, and it’s not doing you any favors. If anything, it’s just making you look more out of touch and more desperate to cling to a fantasy world where you don’t have to face reality.

It’s time to wake up and get your act together, Delora. Quit hiding behind your nerdy obsessions, and start living in the real world. Maybe then, you’ll actually get somewhere instead of just spinning your wheels in the same tired, juvenile habits.

Anyway, rant over.

Alright, some bullet points that occurred to me while I was walking my dogs: 

1) She has no Emotional Intelligence. She can barely understand her own feelings, let alone empathize and sympathize with others. This extends to you, you can't reason with her you can't have her rationalize your pain, she will never understand you because she is incapable. 

2) A list of the things she's done wrong, and insults like 'retard', won't get the message to occur to her any faster than not doing that. I get that it's being done more as a form of Venting, but if you're hoping this will open her eyes or something it won't. 

3) Her inability to grasp the problem will always have her framing herself as the victim, and your locking her in closets and calling her names is going to further justify that while granting her a potential bandwagon of support. 

4) You need to decide if this is the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with. She can't have your child (thank goodness), she can't relate to you, she doesn't like having sex, she can't keep a job, and her personal interests are ones you can't relate to at all. 

5) All of this has been making you into a worse person overtime, early BR wouldn't be doing any of this shit and I suspect a later BR wouldn't be doing this with any other partner. Exposure to her is making both you and her worse rather than better off as people. 

You know my advice, you two should split up, but you won't because eventually her victim behavior will make you feel guilty, there'll be weird gross makeup sex, and then you'll be right back to her either watching Hentai like nothing changed or fucking her while she watches cartoons and otherwise is not a part of the experience. 

If you two ever end up splitting, or even if you don't, you need a good dose of TLC's 90 Days series. Oddly enough it's helped a lot with my own breakup. 

 turncoat he does not want to help me. the shit he says shows that. he is just trying to make me feel like shit. 

Delora said: 

 turncoat he does not want to help me. the shit he says shows that. he is just trying to make me feel like shit. 

He feels like he hasn't been able to communicate with you, prompting him to try harder and louder, and my response is "yes, you can't, give up now". 

Fantasy is just part of reality. I don't get the crazy hate for it except being a way to discriminate. Investing poorly would be something else.

Delora said: 

 turncoat he does not want to help me. the shit he says shows that. he is just trying to make me feel like shit. 

This portion of his rant shows he thinks this is some sort of wakeup call: 

BohemianRhapsody said:

Honestly, it’s just sad. You’re letting all these cringey, immature obsessions control your life. Instead of being upfront about your interests, you try to play it off like you’re something you’re not by trying to act normal. But everyone can see through the facade, and it’s not doing you any favors. If anything, it’s just making you look more out of touch and more desperate to cling to a fantasy world where you don’t have to face reality.

It’s time to wake up and get your act together, Delora. Quit hiding behind your nerdy obsessions, and start living in the real world. Maybe then, you’ll actually get somewhere instead of just spinning your wheels in the same tired, juvenile habits.

It isn't though, you won't change, and until someone else brings portions like this to your attention you won't even understand what he's trying to say, why he's saying it, or even what brought him to that point of frustration. 

To you, you are just on the receiving end with no idea why he's so pissed off. Instead you feel like you have to give into his desires that you can't relate to to keep him happy, or you get tired of that and do your own thing, neither of which actually understand what his feelings are or where they are even coming from. 

It's hopeless, just give up. You both are bad for eachother and will torture yourselves to try to be what the other wants. He doesn't grasp that you can't be a part of the "real world", and he's trying to "fix you" so that you can when you simply cannot. 

Turncoat said: 

Alright, some bullet points that occurred to me while I was walking my dogs: 

1) She has no Emotional Intelligence. She can barely understand her own feelings, let alone empathize and sympathize with others. This extends to you, you can't reason with her you can't have her rationalize your pain, she will never understand you because she is incapable. 

first of all claiming that i have no emotional intelligence and that i'm incapable of understanding my own feelings or empathizing with others is not only insulting but also blatantly untrue emotional intelligence isn't something you can just write off as non existent in someone people develop and express their emotions differently and just because i might not process things the same way you do doesn't mean i'm incapable of understanding or empathizing

2) A list of the things she's done wrong, and insults like 'retard', won't get the message to occur to her any faster than not doing that. I get that it's being done more as a form of Venting, but if you're hoping this will open her eyes or something it won't. 

second you're right that insults like calling me a retard don't help the situation but pointing that out as if it's some revelation isn't productive either i understand that venting is a way to release frustration but if you're trying to make a point about my behavior calling me names won't get you anywhere and it won't make me see your perspective any more clearly

3) Her inability to grasp the problem will always have her framing herself as the victim, and your locking her in closets and calling her names is going to further justify that while granting her a potential bandwagon of support. 

you also mention that i'll always see myself as the victim and that the way i'm treated like being locked in closets and called names justifies that of course i feel like a victim when i'm treated this way you're basically admitting that the behavior i'm subjected to is harmful so yes it makes sense that i would feel victimized like what? come on you are smarter than that. your own bias is clouding you so bad rn 

 

4) You need to decide if this is the kind of person you want to spend the rest of your life with. She can't have your child (thank goodness), she can't relate to you, she doesn't like having sex, she can't keep a job, and her personal interests are ones you can't relate to at all.   

uhm, when you question if i'm the kind of person someone should spend their life with and list all the reasons why i'm supposedly not good enough you're missing the point a relationship isn't about checking off boxes of what you think makes someone worthy of your time it's about mutual respect and understanding tearing me down for not fitting your ideal image of a partner is unfair and it shows more about your expectations than my worth

5) All of this has been making you into a worse person overtime, early BR wouldn't be doing any of this shit and I suspect a later BR wouldn't be doing this with any other partner. Exposure to her is making both you and her worse rather than better off as people.  you say that being with me is making the other person worse over time but that's not my responsibility if someone feels like they're becoming a worse person it's up to them to reflect on their actions and make changes blaming me for their behavior is just a way to avoid taking responsibility for their own choices. you need to stop this where you just see br being horrible and you just being like "oh it isnt br its the scapegoat deloras fault"

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You know my advice, you two should split up, but you won't because eventually her victim behavior will make you feel guilty, there'll be weird gross makeup sex,

no there wont.

and then you'll be right back to her either watching Hentai like nothing changed or fucking her while she watches cartoons and otherwise is not a part of the experience. 

If you two ever end up splitting, or even if you don't, you need a good dose of TLC's 90 Days series. Oddly enough it's helped a lot with my own breakup. 

  you suggest that a breakup is inevitable but then imply that guilt or some other factor will keep things from ending if someone feels trapped in a relationship it's up to them to make the decision to leave staying in a relationship out of guilt or obligation isn't healthy for either person and framing it like i'm the one who's holding them back is just another way to shift blame come on man what the hell? you may not like me but i like you actually and your level of putting br on a pedestal and demonizing me is just obvious and CRAZY 

Delora, he will never understand you either. It is impossible, your needs are too alien to him and that will never change. 

Just leave. 

Turncoat said: 

Cuckoo said: 

People with 10,000 subs and even more view make some okay money. Just need to post daily

🤔

 Again...

"People with 10,000 subs and even more views make some okay money. Just need to post daily"

Subscriber count is one thing, views is a whole other variable. It's the views that matter most. 

And post daily.