Relationships become like this after a while. This is normal and the thoughts about other women are okay. Sex becomes more of a duty the longer the relationship is, this is also kind of normal. Do you think Jay Z is still attracted to Beyonce? At the end it really depends on what you want in life. For women sex has a different meaning than for men, so an open relationship etc is usually not a possibility. You gotta just do it and push through it. Other possibilities are breaking up or cheating. I would not do it if I felt genuine love for her.
You can also ask yourself about other factors such as, why has the attraction gotten less? Are you bored with the person? Is it them or a habit or something they did or are doing? Is it both? Is it you? Open communication is important in a relationship and trying to fix problems overtime is also important
thank you this is actually decent advice.
my friend is a closed book and has always had issues opening up, but this time it is worth pushing through and communicating.
what's the hottest situation you can imagine someone in?
Thank you! The hottest situation I can imagine someone in is subjective to my own opinion, but to me that would be public bondage of a woman and then having multiple people eating her out at the same time while she tries not to orgasm and gets embarrassed as she fails and starts crying because in her fictional country and orgasm is consent to be impregnated and she gets gang banged by two dicks at once until she's pregnant while people laugh at her
Though I doubt such a fantasy is healthy for a relationship nor a sane one