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I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

Not really the same thing, but this further confirms the male sympathy angle. 

Empathy would note how others respond to stuff differently from themselves, and would care. 

 Why is it different? 

Sympathy is moreover your room to put yourself in their shoes. 

Empathy is an assault of outside thoughts you're stuck contending with. 

 Did you misunderstand me on purpose? 

No?

You asked why it's different. Unless you're asking about mirror neurons versus perspective taking at a deeper level, the above is a basic answer for what separates Empathy from Sympathy. 

With you being catcalled you're coming from a very different basis than most women, and with Empathy this wouldn't even need to be explained to you, regardless of your opinion for or against it. 

 I was asking how the basis is different from women. When I get catcalled. I am not doubting it per se, I just want to know your arguments. 

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Why did reading this make me horny 

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Hawk said: 

He seems fine narrating them to Med.

lol it wasn't for Med. Sugar was AFK and was asleep, and I spared her. 

 


More likely Sugar scares him over how he's brought her up as a prime supporter for many moons, but the current rift in politics and his tiff with Alena has had her putting a small flame under his feet. 

 No Sugar doesn't scare me. I do recognize the position she's in when she's expected to stick up for Lena, so I take it easy. I do appreciate how Sugar tells Lena the same thing I do in her own way. 

 it's interesting to me because you have never taken it to this level until i criticised your male idol. how many years has it been tony, hmm? this kinda changes how i look at what you do with med, if it's due to spite rather than simple trolling. what do you have to say for yourself

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1 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...

I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

 no, you don't.

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Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Hawk said: 

He seems fine narrating them to Med.

lol it wasn't for Med. Sugar was AFK and was asleep, and I spared her. 

 


More likely Sugar scares him over how he's brought her up as a prime supporter for many moons, but the current rift in politics and his tiff with Alena has had her putting a small flame under his feet. 

 No Sugar doesn't scare me. I do recognize the position she's in when she's expected to stick up for Lena, so I take it easy. I do appreciate how Sugar tells Lena the same thing I do in her own way. 

 Lmao no, she's not expected to stick up for me. Sugar has never said anything that resembles even an ounce of your bullshit. 

 To be fair you kind of projected onto her some kind of messiah role to free you from your rape and gaslighting trauma which I am sure would kind of put pressure on anyone to at least try to live up to that ideal especially when she invested so much already.

 Wow you're a very shitty psychiatrist/clinical therapist or whatever. You should perhaps not attempt the psycho babble at me because it doesn't work, all it does is point out how frequently wrong you are.

 I don't even need to be a professional to see through your 1-dimensional coping mechanisms. 

 Gosh i wish you would try a little harder, this is pretty disappointing.

 Mirroring strong sis' Sug, I see. Through her you are stronkkk. Lena stronkkk.

 Why is it every time we do this i have to push you to try harder? Like you make a piss poor attempt and when i try to direct you, you get soggy and timid. It's just so empty?? Some women find bumbling incompetence cute, but i don't. Maybe give it some more bite next time. 

 flaccid even. lmao

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1 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...

I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

 I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that is a lie, and a bad one at that.

Sc is pretty boring.
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I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I don't think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that lose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

 PikaTrue !

Med made this thread, probably cause I don't entertain her directly anymore.

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Delora said: 

Why did reading this make me horny 

Made you come out of lurking didn't it. 

It's the chemistry.

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Hawk said: 

He seems fine narrating them to Med.

lol it wasn't for Med. Sugar was AFK and was asleep, and I spared her. 

 


More likely Sugar scares him over how he's brought her up as a prime supporter for many moons, but the current rift in politics and his tiff with Alena has had her putting a small flame under his feet. 

 No Sugar doesn't scare me. I do recognize the position she's in when she's expected to stick up for Lena, so I take it easy. I do appreciate how Sugar tells Lena the same thing I do in her own way. 

 it's interesting to me because you have never taken it to this level until i criticised your male idol. how many years has it been tony, hmm? this kinda changes how i look at what you do with med, if it's due to spite rather than simple trolling. what do you have to say for yourself

 

This has nothing to do with your distaste for people I admire. 

Plus I never even did anything when I could've. You should be grateful Sug.

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0 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...
Hawk said: 
Hawk said: 

He seems fine narrating them to Med.

lol it wasn't for Med. Sugar was AFK and was asleep, and I spared her. 

 


More likely Sugar scares him over how he's brought her up as a prime supporter for many moons, but the current rift in politics and his tiff with Alena has had her putting a small flame under his feet. 

 No Sugar doesn't scare me. I do recognize the position she's in when she's expected to stick up for Lena, so I take it easy. I do appreciate how Sugar tells Lena the same thing I do in her own way. 

 it's interesting to me because you have never taken it to this level until i criticised your male idol. how many years has it been tony, hmm? this kinda changes how i look at what you do with med, if it's due to spite rather than simple trolling. what do you have to say for yourself

 

This has nothing to do with your distaste for people I admire. 

Plus I never even did anything when I could've. You should be grateful Sug.

 You're literally so fuckin gross and should be shunned.

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