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Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Hawk said: 

He seems fine narrating them to Med.

lol it wasn't for Med. Sugar was AFK and was asleep, and I spared her. 

 


More likely Sugar scares him over how he's brought her up as a prime supporter for many moons, but the current rift in politics and his tiff with Alena has had her putting a small flame under his feet. 

 No Sugar doesn't scare me. I do recognize the position she's in when she's expected to stick up for Lena, so I take it easy. I do appreciate how Sugar tells Lena the same thing I do in her own way. 

 Lmao no, she's not expected to stick up for me. Sugar has never said anything that resembles even an ounce of your bullshit. 

 To be fair you kind of projected onto her some kind of messiah role to free you from your rape and gaslighting trauma which I am sure would kind of put pressure on anyone to at least try to live up to that ideal especially when she invested so much already.

 Wow you're a very shitty psychiatrist/clinical therapist or whatever. You should perhaps not attempt the psycho babble at me because it doesn't work, all it does is point out how frequently wrong you are.

 I don't even need to be a professional to see through your 1-dimensional coping mechanisms. 

 Gosh i wish you would try a little harder, this is pretty disappointing.

 Mirroring strong sis' Sug, I see. Through her you are stronkkk. Lena stronkkk.

 Why is it every time we do this i have to push you to try harder? Like you make a piss poor attempt and when i try to direct you, you get soggy and timid. It's just so empty?? Some women find bumbling incompetence cute, but i don't. Maybe give it some more bite next time. 

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I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

Not really the same thing, but this further confirms the male sympathy angle. 

Empathy would note how others respond to stuff differently from themselves, and would care. 

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0 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Lenalee said: 
Hawk said: 

He seems fine narrating them to Med.

lol it wasn't for Med. Sugar was AFK and was asleep, and I spared her. 

 


More likely Sugar scares him over how he's brought her up as a prime supporter for many moons, but the current rift in politics and his tiff with Alena has had her putting a small flame under his feet. 

 No Sugar doesn't scare me. I do recognize the position she's in when she's expected to stick up for Lena, so I take it easy. I do appreciate how Sugar tells Lena the same thing I do in her own way. 

 Lmao no, she's not expected to stick up for me. Sugar has never said anything that resembles even an ounce of your bullshit. 

 To be fair you kind of projected onto her some kind of messiah role to free you from your rape and gaslighting trauma which I am sure would kind of put pressure on anyone to at least try to live up to that ideal especially when she invested so much already.

 Wow you're a very shitty psychiatrist/clinical therapist or whatever. You should perhaps not attempt the psycho babble at me because it doesn't work, all it does is point out how frequently wrong you are.

 I don't even need to be a professional to see through your 1-dimensional coping mechanisms. 

 Gosh i wish you would try a little harder, this is pretty disappointing.

 Mirroring strong sis' Sug, I see. Through her you are stronkkk. Lena stronkkk.

 Why is it every time we do this i have to push you to try harder? Like you make a piss poor attempt and when i try to direct you, you get soggy and timid. It's just so empty?? Some women find bumbling incompetence cute, but i don't. Maybe give it some more bite next time. 

It's probably because you're still responding at all. 

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I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

Not really the same thing, but this further confirms the male sympathy angle. 

Empathy would note how others respond to stuff differently from themselves, and would care. 

 Why is it different? 

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0 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...

Once again Turncoat and Lena -both Lesbians- tagteaming and torturing poor SC men.

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0 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...

I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

Not really the same thing, but this further confirms the male sympathy angle. 

Empathy would note how others respond to stuff differently from themselves, and would care. 

 Why is it different? 

Sympathy is moreover your room to put yourself in their shoes. 

Empathy is an assault of outside thoughts you're stuck contending with. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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Once again Turncoat and Lena -both Lesbians- tagteaming and torturing poor SC men.

For the umpteenth time I'm bi. 

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0 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...

I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

Not really the same thing, but this further confirms the male sympathy angle. 

Empathy would note how others respond to stuff differently from themselves, and would care. 

 Why is it different? 

Sympathy is moreover your room to put yourself in their shoes. 

Empathy is an assault of outside thoughts you're stuck contending with. 

 Did you misunderstand me on purpose? 

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0 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...

Interesting way to say you're being bullied, fry but i am also unfortunately bisexual 

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0 votes RE: It strikes again: Tony has a problem sharing his fantasies with...

I find these rps etc funny. It is a great schtick. I dont think it is creepy at all and this kind of criticism is usually employed or instrumentalized by people that loose arguments with Tony or are exposed by him. 

The real difference here is that he hasn't been about you. 

Maybe maybe. There can also be other explanations as to why I do not think it is creepy. I have empathy, I can change perspective etc. I do not need to be abused in order to know it is wrong. I feel like you are trying to assassinate my voice. 

Shouldn't said empathy extend towards the victims though, or is it more like male sympathy? 

Not everyone who feels he or she is a victim is one. That is an important point I am making and I am sure you know this. I do not think Tony's schtick is abuse in a way that you work on framing it. Since there is no victim only victim claiming to serve individual agendas and feuds there is no empathy someone who doesn't play petty games could have. 

Male sympathy it is then. Oh Poor Men

I bet you think catcalling is harmless too. 

 I get catcalled by women. 

Not really the same thing, but this further confirms the male sympathy angle. 

Empathy would note how others respond to stuff differently from themselves, and would care. 

 Why is it different? 

Sympathy is moreover your room to put yourself in their shoes. 

Empathy is an assault of outside thoughts you're stuck contending with. 

 Did you misunderstand me on purpose? 

No?

You asked why it's different. Unless you're asking about mirror neurons versus perspective taking at a deeper level, the above is a basic answer for what separates Empathy from Sympathy. 

With you being catcalled you're coming from a very different basis than most women, and with Empathy this wouldn't even need to be explained to you, regardless of your opinion for or against it. 

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last edit on 1/4/2023 10:49:01 PM
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