I see. If you know them immediately, how do you know they are not fake? I am usually skeptical of people that seem to be the TOP G, because they can be narcs that actually crumble in a real confrontation. Often, they are bullies that need to shit on others to confirm their own superiority over them, since they actually lack confidence in themselves, and it's all fake.
Tate is an example, but I think most people here are smart enough to see he is full of shit. But others are not and they think him the one that commands the most respect and is full of confidence.
i don't believe the loud bullies are alpha, i just think they probably get beaten by their dad and idolise him lmao
one guy i knew, very handsome, rich and completely controlled by his father. he often tried to make a show of bullying his friends in front of me, which made me really uncomfortable but also made me think he was a bitch. his gf was running game on him, cheating on him with his cousin/best friend etc, and one time at a party we caught her 'seductively' sucking on a lollipop to the best friend she claimed had forced himself on her. LOL
he was interesting cos he was so narcissistic that he'd be super easy to manipulate.
the real ones often don't make a show, but everyone just knows the deal. people respect them and their boundaries without them needing to state them.