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Canary said: 

Soon I'll be leaving SC because I'm getting too old.

The old-timer comments are getting to you? 🤣

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

I just wanted to give a reason for why I did not want him trying to control me and stuff it was a very uncomfortable and awkward dynamic for me but ultimately,  I see life from a very different perspective than him and it was just not an inspiring friendship for me personally and unfortunately I did not express this in a very polite way but I do hope that he forgives me someday although I think that it is best that we continue to not be friends due to his attempts to control me which just feel very offputting to me personally

Are you sure it wasn't just advice? 

Most of the time you react this way to advice. 

I love advice when it comes from people that I find inspiring and encouraging

No, you like the sound of words like "Yes".

You want an enabler, and some part of you doesn't like that someone giving you advice has you considering it. 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Canary said: 

I'm guessing BT was too nice and was all about the friendzone and when that was established he started the groping and pinching.

yeah,  and then I even tested him and it turns out that he likes being friendzoned

Lol no he doesn't, he appreciates and respects it but it's not the goal if he's actually into the person. 

but being inappropriately flirtatious while in the friendzone and that was just even more unappealing

What did he even do to flirt? From my POV I see you doing your value/devalue thing, one day professing your love to him and the next cussing him out as if he had some kind of power over you. 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Canary said: 

I'm guessing BT was too nice and was all about the friendzone and when that was established he started the groping and pinching.

yeah,  and then I even tested him and it turns out that he likes being friendzoned

Lol no he doesn't, he appreciates and respects it but it's not the goal if he's actually into the person. 

but being inappropriately flirtatious while in the friendzone and that was just even more unappealing

What did he even do to flirt? From my POV I see you doing your value/devalue thing, one day professing your love to him and the next cussing him out as if he had some kind of power over you. 

oooooh this is so cringe,  in pm a ton of times and I never flirted with him once  oh god you are so fucking delusional  he kept flirting with me and I kept turning him down  he would keep doing it  I tested him just to make a point and then saw his true colors that he likes being friend zoned

you do not know the truth about him obviously and what he does in pms he also creepily had me add him on discord a bunch of times and then would say flirtatious gross stuff to.me that I was obviously uncomfortable with

 I have all of it saved but I am going to compassionately spare his obviously very beaten down ego if he only aspires to be in womens friendzones

You have a topic literally called might be in love with buttered toast, while when I call attention to your feelings he politely declines them, every time. 

I don't think he's a coprophiliac, it's kind of a deal breaker honestly. 

The real reason BT scares you: 

I am fine with being just friends, but I do like that I have been sharing my true self with him lately I have been soo transparent lately about everything that I am struggling with internally and it is kind of shocking me to be soo- see through ?

 

gosh like I have always kept a lot of my internal struggles to myself because of the shame and guilt but actually talking people about it as scary as it is is helping me to feel less isolated but also less self-protected and maybe the trade off of feeling less self-protected is better like exposing your deepest fears and struggles is not the most safe feeling in the world especially when you are not sure how people will react to knowing what yours specifically are

You yielded enough to feel vulnerable, which makes you feel like he has the power. 

Turncoat said: 

You have a topic literally called might be in love with buttered toast, while when I call attention to your feelings he politely declines them, every time. 

I don't think he's a coprophiliac, it's kind of a deal breaker honestly. 

that was the time that I tested him you idiot,  and I did it to prove a point that he is not relationship material for any woman

I have everything in pms lmao you are soooooooo in the wrong on this one dude,  I never legitimately flirted with him even once and all pms between us both on here and on discord back that up 100 percent

Buttered Toast said: 

compassionatequeen said:

you'd be wrong,  he always tries to flirt with me and talk to me about living together and stuff

 "always"?  You know this is outright untrue.  I did ask how you felt about flirting, but it seemed to introduce anxiety into the situation.  I'd rather not risk our friendship like that, though.

the dude lives for being in the friendzone with younger women and inappropriately flirting with them while in the friendzone-  prove me wrong

no woman wants to be with him in a relationship and there is a reason for that

(I know that you hate having the truth called out for what it is but it is time for you to accept reality and literally all of the other sc women will back me up that he has attempted to do the very same stuff that he did with me with them too)

it does not take a rocket scientist to watch how buttered toast interacts with women even in public chat pet alone what goes on behind the scenes in pms

compassionatequeen said: 

the dude lives for being in the friendzone with younger women and inappropriately flirting with them while in the friendzone,  prove me wrong

Didn't he date Faethers, and I've seen him hardcore hitting on some other women here. 

Meanwhile you're all over him professing love and he says "No", he's just not that into you. 

no woman wants to be with him in a relationship and there is a reason for that

The guy's dated other people and I think he was even married once upon a time. 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

the dude lives for being in the friendzone with younger women and inappropriately flirting with them while in the friendzone,  prove me wrong

Didn't he date Faethers, and I've seen him hardcore hitting on some other women here. 

Meanwhile you're all over him professing love and he says "No", he's just not that into you. 

no woman wants to be with him in a relationship and there is a reason for that

The guy's dated other people and I think he was even married once upon a time. 

🤦‍♀️  she friendzoned him after meeting up with him irl and seeing the truth about who he is as a person you idiot

fucking pay attention

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

the dude lives for being in the friendzone with younger women and inappropriately flirting with them while in the friendzone,  prove me wrong

Didn't he date Faethers, and I've seen him hardcore hitting on some other women here. 

Meanwhile you're all over him professing love and he says "No", he's just not that into you. 

no woman wants to be with him in a relationship and there is a reason for that

The guy's dated other people and I think he was even married once upon a time. 

SHE FRIENDZONED HIM YOU IDIOT

They dated, for a while, and she was so possessive that she tried to drive a wedge between his and I's friendship. 

It got pretty bloody on here. 

compassionatequeen said: 

(I know that you hate having the truth called out for what it is but it is time for you to accept reality and literally all of the other sc women will back me up that he has attempted to do the very same stuff that he did with me with them too)

But like BT said, 'you know this to be outright untrue'.