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compassionatequeen said: 

I just wanted to give a reason for why I did not want him trying to control me and stuff it was a very uncomfortable and awkward dynamic for me but ultimately,  I see life from a very different perspective than him and it was just not an inspiring friendship for me personally and unfortunately I did not express this in a very polite way but I do hope that he forgives me someday although I think that it is best that we continue to not be friends due to his attempts to control me which just feel very offputting to me personally

Are you sure it wasn't just advice? 

Most of the time you react this way to advice. 

BT ! Come quick !  Important message for you !

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

I just wanted to give a reason for why I did not want him trying to control me and stuff it was a very uncomfortable and awkward dynamic for me but ultimately,  I see life from a very different perspective than him and it was just not an inspiring friendship for me personally and unfortunately I did not express this in a very polite way but I do hope that he forgives me someday although I think that it is best that we continue to not be friends due to his attempts to control me which just feel very offputting to me personally

Are you sure it wasn't just advice? 

Most of the time you react this way to advice. 

I love advice when it comes from people that I find inspiring and encouraging and people that see the world and reality from perspectives that I think are beneficial to myself and are interesting to me-  I have plenty of these people in my life and we exchange advice on a regular basis  buttered toast is not one of those people to me and neither are you turncoat  learn to accept that I do not see buttered toast or your perspective on life and reality this way and you are probably going to never change my mind about that-  soo it would be better for you to just accept that instead of trying to change my mind

Soon I'll be leaving SC because I'm getting too old.

Don't try to stop me. It's happening very soon.

Canary said: 

Soon I'll be leaving SC because I'm getting too old.

Don't try to stop me. It's happening very soon.

sighh,  I said specifically that I was just looking for a reason because I felt awkward about outright saying the real reason why I did not want to be friends with that person or have that person comment on my opinions and thoughts and beliefs anymore

lol I titled this thread "for" instead of to because I was half asleep oops

I'm guessing BT was too nice and was all about the friendzone and when that was established he started the groping and pinching.

Canary said: 

I'm guessing BT was too nice and was all about the friendzone and when that was established he started the groping and pinching.

yeah,  and then I even tested him and it turns out that he likes being friendzoned but being inappropriately flirtatious while in the friendzone and that was just even more unappealing

compassionatequeen said: 

Canary said: 

I'm guessing BT was too nice and was all about the friendzone and when that was established he started the groping and pinching.

yeah,  and then I even tested him and it turns out that he likes being friendzoned

Lol no he doesn't, he appreciates and respects it but it's not the goal if he's actually into the person. 

but being inappropriately flirtatious while in the friendzone and that was just even more unappealing

What did he even do to flirt? From my POV I see you doing your value/devalue thing, one day professing your love to him and the next cussing him out as if he had some kind of power over you.