and it is a permanently forever breakup unless he makes and offer for me to come live with him at his house and it is a really good one and wins my mother's approval of that happening
soo there we have it, It has come to a point where a boundary between him and intimacy with my heart needs to be set, so that there is no more disappointment on my end because my heart and spirit cannot take it anymore and wants to shut him out permanently forever because of him not treating me with respect and as an equal and sharing his life with me
I am not interested in an ongoing online fantasy relationship and this phase is ending now for me. period
Give it a few hours and you'll be begging him for McDonalds and Dutch Ovens.
Incorrect
sure good luck lol ;p (when I get stubborn on something it is pretty much game over, and I am stubborn on the topic of this thread and not only did I break up with this person but I have pretty much lost all interest in communicating with and paying attention to this person as well) I have what I would call an abuse threshold, and once it is surpassed I shut down on a person until they make everything right between us, otherwise I will pretty much ignore that person for life to keep the peace
when I get stubborn on something it is pretty much game over
I wish I could snag you from a slightly different point in time to argue with yourself.
I am stubborn on the topic of this thread and not only did I break up with this person but I have pretty much lost all interest in communicating with and paying attention to this person as well
Not the first time you said that kind of thing before going back to begging though.
I mean yeah, the word 'official' is here this time, but that means if you screw this up again that it'll become that much more ironic at your expense.
I have what I would call an abuse threshold, and once it is surpassed I shut down on a person until they make everything right between us
I've seen you go between valuing and devaluing without it being over anything the other person did.
In fact you seem to prefer the room to talk to yourself, until rendered begging again anyway.
Otherwise I will pretty much ignore that person for life to keep the peace
From my time knowing you, I'd say it's closer to you struggling with closure than that.
Your way of ignoring people so far has been to make topics declaring you're not talking to them anymore, then flooding it and other topics with that fact. That's still giving the dude supply.