I am going through some healing lately and self-identifying as a siren is not true or helpful for my self-esteem, especially as I was born from human parents and not the ocean or the air Lmao
I really need to stop feeding my borderline pd traited urge to blame myself for all of the problems of the world or for men "losing their minds and going crazy" over me Idk why I do this and I really need to stop like what the hell ? just because I do not support their narcissistic grandiose view of themselves does not make me a bad person, it makes me fucking honest and a realist like time to come down from delusional land guys, and if you hate me for giving you an honest perception of yourself where you are not just soo immaculate then get over yourself, because trying to blame me as the one with the problem for seeing the truth for what it is is not going to make me feel bad about myself anymore because I am not going to let it make me feel bad about myself anymore
got it ?