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Nooneyouknow said: 

I’m scared to date on the apps.

1. What if you meet and know within a few minutes (because you usually do) whether you like a person how do you make your exit. The thought of the difficulty in making the exit keeps me from meeting anyone. I mean do I have to sit through a whole dam date if the person is unattractive to me or Snoresville.

2. I want the most attractive member of opposite sex I can find .
For those of you with experience with the apps is it like one and done

 

a. In other words you VET them before you meet by going though a zillion photos on profiles and talk before you meet)

and that first person you date you end up having sex and pretty soon you are on your way to 2.5 kids. Kind of exaggerating but not. I know two people for whom The One was the first person they met.

b. Or b I need to set up like dates every week until I find someone. How depressing. Ugh.

Furthermore I was promiscuous once upon a time. I’m often attracted to opposite sex based on physical attractiveness and thus for the “wrong” reasons. In other words, I don’t want to get “stuck” in a sexual relationship with someone who is not ideal for long term.

 

Alternatively I would like to meet someone organically because screw the apps but I think that’s not going to happen 

Or I could just get back together with my Ex.

 

I’m really not that neurotic. I’m attractive. I will find someone but I have really high standards.

Please advise. Incidentally I’m disgusted reading my own brain dump. Pls be charitable in your response.

 There really isn't anything to respond to in this wall of nothingness. Rephrase maybe?

TL; DR

1. Do I have to sit through a whole date if I don’t like the person immediately ?

2. I want the most attractive member of opposite sex I can find .
For those of you with experience with the apps is it like one and done, (see above for explanation of one and done) either to vet judiciously before or waste time going on dates every week ugh? Some idiot wanted me to condense my argument.

3. I don’t want to have sex too quickly. I do like sex. Clouds your eyes so you don’t get to know someone sometimes. History in OP. I could have really good sex but there could be someone better out there.

4. Or I could just get back with my Ex.

Other points 5. I’m attractive. I could find somebody but I have extremely high standards.

I am not neurotic but this sounds like neuroses to me when I read my brain dump. These are my barriers to dating. So Pls be charitable in your response.

I had a 7 year relationship with a girl I met at a hotel the day after we matched on tinder, so you never know.

Nooneyouknow said: 

TL; DR

1. Do I have to sit through a whole date if I don’t like the person immediately ?

no

3. I don’t want to have sex too quickly. I do like sex. Clouds your eyes so you don’t get to know someone sometimes. History in OP. I could have really good sex but there could be someone better out there.

this is your problem right here

4. Or I could just get back with my Ex.

Depends why it already failed, but in general it is bound to fail again literally unless he has a better paying job now. 

Chapo said: 

Nooneyouknow said: 

 

3. I don’t want to have sex too quickly. I do like sex. Clouds your eyes so you don’t get to know someone sometimes. History in OP. I could have really good sex but there could be someone better out there.

this is your problem right here

what

4. Or I could just get back with my Ex.

Depends why it already failed, but in general it is bound to fail again literally unless he has a better paying job now. 

 This is uncannily eerie. Where is this coming from

Nooneyouknow said: 

Chapo said: 

Nooneyouknow said: 

3. I don’t want to have sex too quickly. I do like sex. Clouds your eyes so you don’t get to know someone sometimes. History in OP. I could have really good sex but there could be someone better out there.

this is your problem right here

what

this is your problem right here, you’re literally wasting your time on dating apps if you aren’t willing to have sex. You can do whatever you want, but nobody is going to take you seriously. I don’t care who you are.

Chapo said: 

3. I don’t want to have sex too quickly. I do like sex. Clouds your eyes so you don’t get to know someone sometimes. History in OP. I could have really good sex but there could be someone better out there.

this is your problem right here

What's wrong with not putting out so quickly? Not all men are pigs y'know. 

Turncoat said: 

Chapo said: 

3. I don’t want to have sex too quickly. I do like sex. Clouds your eyes so you don’t get to know someone sometimes. History in OP. I could have really good sex but there could be someone better out there.

this is your problem right here

What's wrong with not putting out so quickly? Not all men are pigs y'know. 

 

 You’re a train wreck.

Chapo said: 

Turncoat said: 

Chapo said: 

3. I don’t want to have sex too quickly. I do like sex. Clouds your eyes so you don’t get to know someone sometimes. History in OP. I could have really good sex but there could be someone better out there.

this is your problem right here

What's wrong with not putting out so quickly? Not all men are pigs y'know. 

 You’re a train wreck.

Seriously, men are smarter than beasts, and the promise of sex that means something more keeps some men from leaving when compared to being an easy lay. 

You clearly are not a man of conquest, you must prefer whores.