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she just wants good stuff and healing to happen for herself and for everyone else  :)🤍  really truly,  and guys I am so happy to be able to say this about myself considering all of the darkness of my past  the beautiful thing about life is that if you look for it,  there is always a chance to transform and become a better version of yourself  you are not defined by your past or your mistakes,  and if anyone tries to tell you that that person is all that you will ever be,  just tell them that they are completely wrong and underestimating you and the power of using your mistakes as teachers instead of letting your mistakes define you as a person

Can't change the past, but the cringe of it can shape the future. We are defined by our past mistakes, but we don't have to perpetuate them. 

compassionatequeen said:

and I will always regret trying to put spells on people that could potentially cause harm but I undid all of those spells and I will never even try to do that stuff again and I probably did not even do it the right way anyway

I think you hinted a while back at confusion related to me and spells and visions you were having. Did you ever cast anything on me? 

I'm like, I'm just a different person now idk I've matured past that type of behavior

I feel like you've said this multiple times, it reads as wish fulfillment to me. 

I suspect you live so deeply in the moment that you don't immediately recognize the loops. 

you might define yourself by your own mistakes,  but I do not do that with myself  it would be better for everyone if keep your own unhealthy thinking to yourself because probably no one else is interested in it

also,  in my personal opinion my mistakes were not cringe,  I just mostly feel sad that I used to be so traumatized as  a person that I felt like the only way to live and to protect myself was to seek revenge  it is a sad situation,  not cringe at all but it is also a success story

and yes I fulfilled my own wish,  as I have many many times in the past  :)

compassionatequeen said: 

you might define yourself by your own mistakes, but I do not do that with myself

If you do not factor in your own history, then how can you grow from it? 

Recognizing your own mistakes is healthy, as without it you're bound to just repeat the same problems. You then can try to overcome those obstacles and feel a sense of pride from growth. 

recognizing is not the same as defining yourself by

people are people,  people are not their behaviors or actions or bad habits that they struggle with  good god how did you ever graduate school if you went to school for learning how to be a therapist ?

compassionatequeen said: 

also,  in my personal opinion my mistakes were not cringe

Everyone's history has cringe in it, as we always have had a time in our past where we did not know better over something we understand now. 

There's probably tons of cringe that could be found if you dug into your older entries. 

I do not see mistakes as something to be embarrassed about,  I see mistakes as a normal part of being human  what matters is that you learn from your mistakes and become a better more successful person,  not that you were once in psychological pain and confused on how to handle the situations that life threw at you in the most effective way of getting your emotional and physical needs met possible

compassionatequeen said: 

recognizing is not the same as defining yourself by

Why would you not want to focus on past mistakes in order to overcome them? 

I figure what defines a person is largely over what people end up knowing about them, whatever precedes them tends to be what defines them. If a person repeatedly makes the same mistakes and ruminates over the same subjects it kinda does become who they are. 

people are people,  people are not their behaviors or actions or bad habits that they struggle with

They kinda are, alongside everything else about them. 

You can't really ignore said behaviors/actions/bad habits in the name of 'people' without opening yourself up to shitty things. If someone for instance has a habit of being abusive that should not be ignored. 

  good dod how did you ever graduate school if you went to school for learning how to be a therapist ?

Psychology is not Therapy only, and people like you'd be classified as a difficult enough case for even qualified professionals.

You also are not my client, you are not paying me money so I have no obligation to do the therapy song-and-dance ala '7 Cups of Tea' for you, and rather than talk down to you like a patient I'd rather talk to you like an equal. 

Seriously, therapy talk is so demeaning, why would you want to be talked to like you're less than them?